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Appeal of "coming" on a woman
Hi, just wondering if anyone's dh likes to do this.. come on your face, boobs etc? I kinda like it when its the boobs, but the face makes me kinda uncomfortable. we have been together a long time and he just recently started doing this. For those of you who's husbands do this.. do you like it? and why do they do it? is it just a porn thing?
Thanks!
Re: Appeal of "coming" on a woman
If you don't like, you need to let him know. And stand your ground that he won't be doing it again.
You can certainly say it nicely and let him know what you do like, but there's no reason that you should have to do something that you don't enjoy.
I'm fine with it anywhere but my face.
You could make a deal with your DH--if you can spit on his face, he can ejaculate on yours. That might help him to understand your feelings about it.
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If it makes you uncomfortable you should tell him. It's okay if you don't like it and don't want him to do it. The problem would be if he knows you don't like it but does it anyway.
I would be more concerned if you felt like you couldn't talk to him about this.
Ok Set....there is some serious problem if your DH thinks its hilarious when you cringe. That's just plain cruel to me. Why is the world would you let that continue?!?!?!?! Makes no sense to me at all!
OP...you need to "man up" and speak your mind. You don't want him to *** (not come) in your face then speak up. It's not just about him!
I dated a guy once that wanted to do that where ever he was allowed, he couldn't explain why he thought it was hot. All he could say is "it just is"
This, so much.
I like taking it on me, face included, but I expect to be told just so I know and I don't open my eyes to cack, balls, and shooting ejaculate.
It's not really about 'why' people like it.. everyone has different sexual tastes, it's what you feel comfortable with and communicating that with your partner.
Are you serious???
Apparently my previous statement wasn't phrased quite the way I meant it to be. I have no problem if DH comes on me, especially since I know it turns him on. (I actually think it's kind of hot, too, to be honest.) However, even though he always lets me know beforehand, when it first hits me it always surprises me a bit, causing me to cringe. This reaction usually causes me to end up laughing as well! It's a funny way to end a passionate bout of sex!
My DH has always been respectful of me both in and out of the bedroom. He has always made a point to ask before doing something for the first time. And I always try to be open to to trying out new things, but if I end up not liking it, he has and would never push me to do it again. That's just one of the many reasons why I married him!
Word.
My DH likes to on my face as well (not often, just when we're in the shower together). When he first said he wanted to do this, I was a little turned off at the thought. But, once he did it, I really got into it... his facial expression was obvious at how much he enjoyed it.. which made me enjoy it too.
And yes, I think it's a porn thing. I'm pretty sure that's where my DH got the idea.
Now that's funny because that's exactly how I feel. My DH would love too, he's kinky like that... NO THANK YOU. I saw a porno with a girl that had it all over her face and it looked so disgusting!!
Now that's funny because that's exactly how I feel. My DH would love too, he's kinky like that... NO THANK YOU. I saw a porno with a girl that had it all over her face and it looked so disgusting!!
If he does something you don't like, you should tell him. Same goes for him if you do something he doesn't like. Communication when it comes to sex is very, very important.
And FWIW, my husband has never asked to come on my face. Frankly, he would rather come IN me than anywhere else.
I got one better.. if you don't want him to *** in your face, he can just *** on his g/f''s face... if you spit on him, I hope he throws you clear accross the room.