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anti-lingerie?

Does anyone's H not like lingerie? I'd lovvvve to wear it, but I feel stupid b/c he will just laugh! It takes the sexy out of it. He just thinks it is silly and gets in the way. And it's not like he's not attracted to me. I guess he's just a "t-shirt and good pair of jeans" kind of guy.

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Re: anti-lingerie?

  • Dh would rather see me in one of his button down dress shirts or nothing at all!  I did wear some on our wedding night and honeymoon, but haven't done it since.  He prefers me naked!

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  • MH isn't a big fan of lingerie, but neither am I.
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  • dh LOVES lingerie! i have so much its ridiculous. it really just ends up on the floor in a few minutes. but he likes it so i wear it often. i still havent worn everything that i got from my shower over a year ago!
  • MH doesn't care for it and I really don't either.
  • H loves lingerie!!  He usually gets me a gift certificate on my birthday or Christmas to get some!  I love to surprise him with it.  Being sexy isn't always about lace and garters either.  On our honeymoon I had bought a few new things and some were lacy and sexy, but I also bought these cute little satin shorts and wore them with a tiny white tank top, also pretty sexy!  Lingerie doesn't have to be complicated, and as a PP said, it usually ends up on the floor in a few minutes anyway!
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  • My fiance doesn't like it either.  He would much rather just have me nude.  However, I once told him that it wasn't all about him liking it...I explained that wearing it made me feel sexy...which translates to a better time for him.  He's learned to perk up when he sees something lacy...the lingerie itself does nothing for him, but knowing how I'm feeling when I wear it gets his attention :-)
  • Honey says its just another thing to take off. He isn't a fan, but I too have had to have the conversation about how it makes me feel wearing it.
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  • Mine isn't a fan.  He feels its a big waste of money, since it just comes off.  He thinks its sexier to see me in my riding outfit.
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  • My DH also thinks it's a waste of money. He just wants to see me naked, LOL. If he doesn't like lingerie, then good- you can stop wasting your money on it. I did for a long time and after a year of marriage, I finally stopped buying it.
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  • Meh. Marc doesn't hate it but he doesn't ask that i keep it close by. I haven't bought any new lingerie in awhile. I don't like to wear it much either. I go naked or i wear his geek shirts.
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  • My H and I LOVE lingerie...It definitely spices things up :)
  • My last lover ADORED frilly, lacy things on me, but DH prefers things that are more...risque. :p I'm really thinking about just cleaning out the lingerie drawer at this point and being done with it.
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