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Finally I can AW!!!
After a very long, expensive, & emotionally & physically painful court battle with my ex over our children I've finally gotten the upper hand! I was awarded sole custody today!
He hasnt seen them or even tried to since November 12th so I filed a contempt suit against him & I won! He didnt even show up, that proves how much he cares about them. Supposedly he was rushing his girlfriend to the hospital to have their baby(which is drug addicted because she wouldnt quit her oxy habit or her cyboxin she was taking for the oxy habit poor poor baby), but then I saw her in town an hour later. He lied to the court & thats an added bonus for me.
Because of his stipulations for being able to see the kids he will most likely never see them again which is a great thing for me because its truly whats best for them, my 4 year old has a very hard time with all of it, shes not stupid & she knows he doesnt really care about them at all. Im really hoping soon he will drop his rights so H can adopt them because for 3 years he has been their father all day every day & no drug or anything else has ever been more important to him than them. Hell Im not even as important to him as they are.
Sorry that turned into a novel. Im so very very happy things are finally looking up for us. My children really deserved for this to happen for them!
Re: Finally I can AW!!!
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Congratulations girl!
I know what it feels like to have a father that cares more about himself. Your children will be so much better in the long run because of this.
I am so happy for you and your family!!
It's almost here! Weeeeeeee!
my read shelf:
43/70 books read
Back in June 2010...
08/13: Started TTC - 07/14: PCOS dx
BFP 09/18/15 - Baby S 05/27/16
Carter born 5/28/11
BFP 9/27/12 EDD 6/11/13, MC 9wks, no HB
Planning Bio - Woefully out of date