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Never had an orgasm
My issue is this: The only way I am able to orgasm is when I use my vibrator. I feel nothing when I masterbate myself. I may as well be giving myself a foot massage. I have had several partners throughout my life and when each found out I've never had the big "O" they made it their mission with no success. It has gotten to the point that I don't associate orgasms with sex as weird as that sounds. My husband is by far the best lover I have ever had and has tried hard throughout the years using various techniques to get me there to no avail. I think I came close a couple of times. Needless to say, he is frustrated and feels inadequate. He does not understand how I can enjoy sex without that release, but I enjoy it very much.
Do any other women out there suffer from this problem? Does anyone have any advice on what I can try? I have read books and articles on this but none of the information has been useful.
Re: Never had an orgasm
I'm having trouble getting rid of the ***. *** = c o c k
This. It works wonders
I'm the same way, except for me it is a massaging shower head, vibrators do nothing either. That being said, I LOVE sex, feel great stimulation from it, and don't really feel like I'm missing out too much.
If you are both really worried talk to you Dr.!
YOu've got poor communication all accross the board.
Pity.