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DD on the Jesus post?

Did she DD or was it removed?  You can post your personal opinions & beliefs on a public message board all you want but you should be prepared for people to post their feelings in response.  Don't post if you can't deal with opposing viewpoints!  
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Re: DD on the Jesus post?

  • I saw her post and the two responses I saw were civil so if she DD'd because of they didn't agree with her than good luck on the nest!
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  • I wondered if it was a DD as well. I have no problem with people posting any topic at all under the sun. I participate in those threads I want to and ignore the ones that don't interest me. I would be disappointed if it was removed by the community though. As long as their posts aren't abusive, I think people's thoughts should stand so others can judge for themselves. DD's don't particularly bother me.
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  • I did not have it removed.  It may not have been a popular topic, but it didn't violate TOS. 
  • Hm yeah that was an interesting post. I saw it last night but didn't bother responding. I agree that none of the responses were flaming or anything. I tend to get annoyed when people get upset at others having differing opinions. That's what I like about this board is that generally people aren't afraid to give honest opinions yet they do so in a civil manner.
  • I too agree that everything I saw was civil.  A few said they didn't like posts like that-and I think it's fine to state that opinion.   I'd rather see someone come back and justify their post vs. DD, but oh well!
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  • Dang! And I was actually interested to see if anyone posted after me.
  • imageanotapotamus:
    Dang! And I was actually interested to see if anyone posted after me.

    Not that I could tell, but I really liked your response!

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  • I missed all of the fun!
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  • imagerachel06:
    I missed all of the fun!

    Me too! No

  • I assumed it was MUD, but apparently not. Trolls rarely delete their own threads. Anyway, like a pp said, I just ignored it. No biggie.

    ETA: For those who missed it, the OP who deleted her thread thinks the "End of Days" is eminent and Jesus is ready to return due to some recent disasters. It would be an overstatement to say she was flamed; I'd say she got a warm breeze warning her not to assume everyone is a Christian.

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    I wrote this! 
  • She was the newbie who asked if we ever had GTGs with our husbands at our houses.  My response is a big fat NO to that! 

    Sort of on topic-I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of legit, serious posts about religion.  We've had a few from people trying to find a church and I myself have asked for advice about religious conflicts in my family.  Heck, I'm even up for a respectful discussion of why we believe what we believe/don't believe.

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  • imagedaves_sweetpea:

    Sort of on topic-I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of legit, serious posts about religion.  We've had a few from people trying to find a church and I myself have asked for advice about religious conflicts in my family.  Heck, I'm even up for a respectful discussion of why we believe what we believe/don't believe.

    I agree with all of the above provided that people realize that it could rock the harmonious nestie boat a little bit.  Religion is, afterall, one of the rocky topics of conversation.  I for one am always all about healthy debate as long as like you said, it's in a respectful manner and people realize that there are opinions that may differ from your own (and that's okay!).

  • imagedaves_sweetpea:

    Sort of on topic-I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of legit, serious posts about religion.  We've had a few from people trying to find a church and I myself have asked for advice about religious conflicts in my family.  Heck, I'm even up for a respectful discussion of why we believe what we believe/don't believe.

    Same here. I've met a lot of the ladies on this board - and so I think a respectful discussion on just about ANY topic is possible on this board. I like you all, I have no interest in ticking anyone off. :) At least, not yet. ;)

    And I dislike the idea of putting off a newbie that might not understand our board dynamics yet. 

    But that being said - there was something about that post which rubbed me the wrong way - and I think it was the fact that it was so singularly based on Christian premise. It could have been asked 'do you think the end is near?' without ever bringing religion into it. Or a disclaimer could have been added, saying 'I'm Christian and this would mean an armaggedon scenario to me, but I'm interested in other beliefs too.'

    I know I can be a bit harsh sometimes, so I deliberately waited a day or two to respond to see if the thread would go a different place than I would take it. It didn't. Now the DD has me irritated.

  • imagedaves_sweetpea:

    She was the newbie who asked if we ever had GTGs with our husbands at our houses.  My response is a big fat NO to that! 

    Sort of on topic-I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of legit, serious posts about religion.  We've had a few from people trying to find a church and I myself have asked for advice about religious conflicts in my family.  Heck, I'm even up for a respectful discussion of why we believe what we believe/don't believe.

    Totally agree! I believe all topics are acceptable and as I said before, I simply skip any threads that don't interest me. To be religious is as legitimate as not being religious so I think there ought to be room for both secular and spiritual discussions. As Daves pointed out people have sought help finding a church, dealing with interfaith issues with family, etc all without being flamed. Just because we don't all share the same faith doesn't mean we should not post faith-related inquiries. 

    Anota (still don't like the new name :P) What bothered me about the OP was the run-on sentence! LOL 

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  • imageMoesten:
    imagedaves_sweetpea:

    She was the newbie who asked if we ever had GTGs with our husbands at our houses.  My response is a big fat NO to that! 

    Sort of on topic-I don't think anyone should ever be afraid of legit, serious posts about religion.  We've had a few from people trying to find a church and I myself have asked for advice about religious conflicts in my family.  Heck, I'm even up for a respectful discussion of why we believe what we believe/don't believe.

    Totally agree! I believe all topics are acceptable and as I said before, I simply skip any threads that don't interest me. To be religious is as legitimate as not being religious so I think there ought to be room for both secular and spiritual discussions. As Daves pointed out people have sought help finding a church, dealing with interfaith issues with family, etc all without being flamed. Just because we don't all share the same faith doesn't mean we should not post faith-related inquiries. 

    Anota (still don't like the new name :P) What bothered me about the OP was the run-on sentence! LOL 

    You can still call me Nota. I do - in my head. I may still drop the 'A'.
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