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sex after 30 years of marrage
for the last couple of years I do not think my wife has had an orgasm. I have worked for 60 mins and nothing. after 5 mins she says she is ready but I dont think she is. for the last year our sex has been 10 mins of me getting off and her helping me get off. If I stop asking for sex she get upset. if I want to talk she says she is fine. I am worried, if i went 6 months without an orgasm I would be tring everything to fix it. do other women have sex without have orgasm often.. she told her friend that "we do it all the time and it great" . i am not so sure.
Re: sex after 30 years of marrage
Thanks I will keep trying to make sure
You and she need to get out of a sexual rut.
Suggestions: how about you jump into the shower with her -- or set up a real nice bubble bath, complete with candles and music on an ipod and a good bottle of wine...and ask her to come join you?;)
Date nights would be a good idea -- and treat it like a REAL DATE - make reservations at a restaurant, get dressed up, bring flowers, go the whole nine yards.
same here.
My Chart
Married 4/18/09
BFP #1 4/23/11, EDD 1/4/12::No heartbeat @9 wks::D&C 6/1/11
BFP #2 10/07/11
BFP 11.8.12 * EDD 7.17.13 * MC 12.20.12
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot, over!
That could be it. she stop having her monthly visitor a couple of years ago. is there a blood test of some way to check. you may have something here.
Thanks