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Vent: Seriously one of the worst days...

I try not to vent too often but today just really sucked.  I was hot and tired from being outside at work and called my mom on the way home...

only to find out that she and my stepdad are most likely getting a divorce.  I knew they had been having problems for awhile.  I was only 3 when she and my dad divorced so I was too young to car and I didn't like her second husband very much so I didn't mind when they divorced.  But, my stepdad has kind of been like a second dad to me so I feel like my parents are getting divorced...ahhh.

I just don't really know what to do or say.  She's worried what people will think and how my brother will react. 

 Ugh.  Sorry for venting but I feel =S.

S'mores on a stick for everyone who made it through this post =(

Re: Vent: Seriously one of the worst days...

  • Courtney, I am so sorry. I can't relate to what you are going through but I can understand, and I can't even think of how I would handle that. sending tons of :::vibes::: your way.
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    Courtney, I am so sorry. I can't relate to what you are going through but I can understand, and I can't even think of how I would handle that. sending tons of :::vibes::: your way.

    I really couldn't have said it better. I'm so sorry ((hugs))

  • I'm so sorry to hear this, Courtney.  :(  As someone whose parents have both married and divorced three times, I know how painful it can be for everyone.  You've got my T&P during this tough time.
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  • I'm so sorry Courtney. Divorce is a horrible thing to go through for everyone involved. Big hugs!
  • I'm so sorry hun.

    I know is hard for you, but if this is the best decision for your mom and if they have been problems for a while...I guess she just needs you to be there for her and support her decision (when I was getting divorced from my ex-husband that's all I needed support and someone to be there for me). As for your stepdad...I'm sure he will always be there for you as he always has...and I'm sure he will love you no matter what.

    ::Hugs::

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  • sorry to hear this love.  hugs to you and your family.
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    I am so sorry hun. Sending tons and tons of hugs to you.
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  • A great big hug to you honey. 
  • Sorry love...as a product from a bitter divorce, I know how rough it can be.  Nothing but love sent your way dear.  
  • I'm sorry you have to go through this. Divorce is a hard situation for everyone involved.  Your step-dad will always want to have you in his life.  Just like you see him as a dad, he thinks of you as his daughter I'm sure.  While I can't relate, I hope that if your mom and step-dad do divorce that it is the best decision for both parties. 
  • *Hugs* I'm so sorry!
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  • I'm sorry :( That must really suck.
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