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house-sitting/dog-sitting questions

DH and I are going away for a week later this summer and are trying to decide whether to board Ellie or have a friend or pet-sitter come to stay at our house.

There are a few neighborhood teenagers that are offering their services for house sitting or pet sitting. DH and I are having a bit of a disagreement about how old is old enough to house sit and pet sit while we'd be gone. We'd want the person to actually stay at our house while we're gone (not just stop by to let Ellie out). At what age do you think it would be appropriate for a teenager to do this (if at all)? How much would you think I should pay this person per day?

Re: house-sitting/dog-sitting questions

  • I'll be honest. I would not feel comfortable leaving a teenager in my home until they were at least college-aged. That's just me though because I see the trouble that my neighbor's kids create when their parents go out of town. Do you have friends that could watch her and then you guys could reciprocate if they went out of town? That's what we have been doing with a couple and it has worked out well. Good luck!
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  • I think I'm with Feisty. I think college-aged would be good, but then again, it depends on the person. If he/she is a responsible neighborhood kid and the parents are close by then I might be okay with it.

    We have someone house/dog sitting for us this summer. He's mid-twenty's and I'm slightly nervous about it just because all of the what-if's.

  • Oh, we're also paying this guy around $100 (8 days) and leaving a fully-stocked frig.
  • The kids' parents would be very nearby (they live on the same street as us), which I think is why I'm more comfortable with it. DH thinks that the kids who live near us are too young (none are in college yet), which is similar to what you guys have said. Sounds like I'm in the minority, so maybe we'll try to board her or find a friend to help us out. Thanks! Smile
  • I used to dog sit/house sit for people all the time when I was in high school.  I think the cut off is driving age.  You want them to be able to come and go as they need to without their parents having to drive them around.  Also, I probably wouldn't let a boy do it haha it sounds so horrible but I would absolutely trust a teenage girl to do it before a guy. 
  • Dukes--I'm kind of with you.  I would be OK with someone younger, as long as they are responsible and they have responsible adults/caretakers to ask a question about what would be "normal" or not in a home.  I don't know that the parents of a kid that young would want them to stay alone in someone else's home, but if maybe two of them--again, if you know them, and trust them normally would be a nice situation.  In which case, depending on the length of time you'll be gone, maybe pay them about 1/2- 3/4 of the amount you'd pay someone older.

    Good luck!

  • Personally I wouldn't let some stay until college age either. Even if their parents agree to a high schooler doing it, *if* something were to happen you could very well take the blame.  I was a fairly "good" kid and I wasn't allowed to even stay in my own house overnight alone until I was 18.
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  • Do any of them babysit for your neighbors?  I think 16 or 17... I don't know why.  You want to be sure they're strong enough (willed and physically) to handle your pet too.  Have a list of rules but keep it very short.  I think, if you're asking someone to stay at your house each night and let your dog out during the day too supervised that pay should be around $20 per day.  I just heard about a pet CPR or Pet First Aid class... How cool would that be?  You could always choose a teenager or young adult to go and take the class so that you're feeling that they're more prepared for the challenge of looking over your loved one : ) 
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  • My mom used to have a very "responsible" teenage girl house sit for her when I was away at college. The girl was a junior in high school. Until one day I decided to come home for the weekend and let the girl go home. When she showed back up later that afternoon because she needed to look for one of her friends glasses that they had left there. I kindly informed her she would not be hearing from my mother again, as she ahd obviously had several friends over and had people staying the night at our house.

     I started house sitting when I was a freshman in college. I now board my dog or get a friend to watch her. When I do get a friend to watch her I pay her 15-20 dollars a day. Depending on if she is staying at our condo or our house. Often times watching a house can be a little more tedious with a little more upkeep.

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