June 2010 Weddings
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How does he say sorry?

I'm curious... how does everyone's husbands apologize to you? (assuming the fight/argument/discussion/misunderstanding/outburst/short fuse was his fault). Flowers? Chocolates? Dinner? A card? An "I'm sorry"?

 Spill it ladies. :)

Re: How does he say sorry?

  • Out to dinner. Or sometimes we just cool off and then he sits me down to talk about it. And he will give me lots of hugs and kisses and tell me how much he loves me, too.
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  • Usually just a hug, a kiss and an "I'm sorry", but sometimes he brings me flowers, but only the kind he can find on the side of the road. He hates to buy flowers. LOL.
  • He gets really cute and just says sorry. Usually followed up by a kiss. He cutes his way out if it, and I fall every time.
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  • Just a simple "I'm sorry" with that cute puppy face he makes... :o)
  • Simple sorry.  But to be honest, he hasn't done much to make me want more an apology for anything.  He doesn't rock the boat much.
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    Usually just an "I'm sorry", or if he *really* made me mad, then flowers (only did that the once, though).
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  • Usually just the standard "I'm sorry" with a kiss. A couple of times I've been pretty upset and he has come home with flowers and a sweet card.  

  • Yup usually just the standard "I'm sorry" and sucks up for awhile by getting me anything I start to get up to get.

    Once he REALLY messed up when we had been dating a couple of years and showed up at my parents' house with a dozen roses and a stuffed cow.

  • he says i'm sorry even if it's my fault. lol 

    sh!t, nothing could be wrong at all and he'll apologize.

    weirdo. 

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    he says i'm sorry even if it's my fault. lol 

    sh!t, nothing could be wrong at all and he'll apologize.

    weirdo. 

    That's cause he lurves you, duh.  That and you have totally brain washed him.  

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  • He isnt the greatest at apologizing... but its usually just an im sorry.

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  • Today I got a little bouquet (not expensive flowers), "turtle brownies" (8x8, obviously we will be sharing that the next few days!), and a card equipped with an apology, and heartfelt "I vowed to be a better husband, and I mean it", and some other stuff... Last night, he was a jerk, no big fight, just bad communication skills on his part. I got an "I'm sorry" this morning, and then the other stuff when he got home from work. When he's seriously a big fat jerk, I usually end up with flowers/card, but he's also quick to apologize and admit when it's him.

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  • Like Knibey he really doesn't do anything that would need an apology. If anything he will say he is sorry and tell me sweet nothings and it's over with cause I can't be mad at him!Stick out tongue
  • Aw Z, that is really sweet.

    Just an "i'm sorry" is usually what I get. 

  • Whenever we disagree about something, he'll just come back to me and rub my back, kiss me, say he's sorry. Even if I was in the wrong he'll do it hah. He just hates us being upset.
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  • Usually an I'm sorry, plus lots of affection and ice cream. He knows the way to my heart!
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  • I get Im sorry, but only after he's had to time to really digest what he's done so he knows exactly what I want to hear with the apology. He really doesnt make me mad often, we generally get along well.

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  • He'll get quiet for awhile, then come over to me and say, "Hunnnnnnny, I'm sorrrrrrrrry," and bury his face in my neck and stick out his lower lip and make the cute puppy dog face :) Melt every time.
  • Normally just the usual "I'm sorry" and he'll put on his cute hangdog face that I can't help but smile and laugh at every time. Sometimes it's just not fair lol
  • Well it depends on the offense.  He is VERY stubborn (as am I), so we have been known to have stand-offs.  When that happens, I don't get an I'm sorry (ever).  When he relizes I'm right (which is most of the time), he becomes overly helpful and sweet for a few days.  Maybe even a dinner out "for no reason".  But never an I'm sorry.

    There are also times when we have stand-offs that he doesn't concede, he just gives in.  If he doesn't think he was wrong, he just says something sarcastic about me having to have it my way, then goes back to normal.  I'm fine with that ;)   

    Now if he's just snappy or hurts my feelings, then he's all "sorry" with the puppy dog eyes and the hugs and the "I love yous".   

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  • I just get the I'm sorry. If it's a communication issue then we talk it out. Whenever I get flowers it's usually him just saying "I love you" or when he knows I've had a bad day.
  • we basically never fight--we have had 12 years of practicing how to communicate together. it is more often that i'm the one who says the wrong thing because i have a sharp tongue sometimes, but i've also worked to curb that alot. on the few occasions he has done something really worth apologizing for, he has given me a full, thought-out apology for the problem he caused. i much prefer that to sweets or going out to dinner because if he really udnerstands what he did, then he's less likely to repeat it!.
  • Just a kiss and an apology. That's all I need.
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  • He's usually silent for a few minutes and gets this look on his face that I imagine was what he looked like as a little boy...so cute.  And then an I'm sorry. 
  • He is really stubborn it usually takes him about 24 hours before he apologizes and usually when he does it's through a text message followed by a long message.
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  • He'll give me those damn puppy dog eyes and say he's sorry. If he didn't have such gorgeous hazel eyes, it'd never work on me.
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