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This is an overreaction, right?

A friend who had a baby in December posted this today on FB.

"Trama this morning! While putting Anna in her stroller I pushed the snack tray down without realizing her finger was in there, pinched her finger so bad that I called 911 and the medics came...she is fine, might loose a fingernail. I was a bigger baby than she was. Racked with horrible mommy guilt. Big thanks to the random strangers who came over to help. Glad that people do care."

Re: This is an overreaction, right?

  • Depends. I have heard that this can be a big problem with some strollers and it can cause serious harm. Would I call 911...probably not but I would do to the doctor.
  • WTF wouldn't she just drive her to the ER?  Even that would be a mass overreaction, but at least it wouldn't waste EMT resources. 

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  • Yeah, I can see popping the kid back in the car and going to the doctor or even the ER, but 911? Definitely not.
  • Yep.  I am sure I would freak and think I was a terrible no good very bad mother.  But once I regained focus, if it actually required medical attention, it would be a trip to the doctor's office (ER if ABSOLUTELY necessary - like blood gushing necessary).

    I've called the nurses line enough to know that there isn't a whole lot that requires emergency intervention.  I called once after Andy had a vomiting episode that I was sure was record setting.  The nurse, while very kind in my time of need, basically told me to chill the eff out. 

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  • Yeah, overreaction. Depending on how bad it was I may have gone to the ER, but calling 911 seems a bit on the crazy side.
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  • I love the nurseline up here. I called for the first time this week and the RN totally calmed me down.
  • If he was at the point of losing a fingernail, I would call the pedi or helpline and go in if they thought I should. It was a finger and no blood. There is no reason why she coudln't have driven the kid to the ER if she felt that was absolutely necessary. 
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  • Seeking medical attention/advice: Acceptable.

     Calling 911: Batshiit. 

  • That's ridiculous. I'd take her into the kids clinic that we have here if I thought it was bad enough to require a stitch or something.

     But we're generally a "shake it off" group. We felt pretty guilty recently when we realized that her elbow was dislocated all night. Whoops.

     

    And yes Jen, the health hotline has been a great resource, especially when the fevers at 3 am hit. 

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  • I like the inadvertent invention of the word "trama."  Trauma + drama.  When you bring the drama based on a traumatic event.
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