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Sex Therapy???
Has anyone gone to sex therapy or know anyone who has? I'm highly considering it as I don't know what else to do. My husband is an amazing, attractive, awesome guy who most women who die to be married to. However, I just don't have the desire to have sex with him. It's very strange. I feel like I should just 'suck' it up and do it because I feel awful for not giving him sex, but at the same time, I don't feel I should be forced to do it. It feels great and I orgasm almost every time. He suggested watching porn together and I'm not against this, but for some reason feel embarrassed to watch it with him. We've used toys in the past and have switched up locations, positions, etc but nothing seems to peak my interest. I've also been taking progesterone and testosterone for the last 2 months and I STILL don't want to have sex. It breaks my heart to push him away and I just don't know how to fix this. We don't have any kids either and I fear the situation just getting even worse if we do. I definitely want kids with him but need to fix this problems first. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. We've been together for 10 years and married for 5. TIA
Re: Sex Therapy???
Have you always felt this way or could this be related to your multiple m/c? When I miscarried, I became obsessed with conceiving again ASAP, but I know some women go the opposite direction. (Sorry for your losses, by the way).
I don't have any experience with sex therapy, but it seems like it couldn't hurt to try.
According to your bio you are ttc with him.
Have you had a complete physical checkup? It could very well be you have a hormonal imbalance or your thyroid is out of whack. See your doc about this.