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Let's discuss this.

http://stirrupsandstories.mosaicglobe.com/

From another board-it's some kind of photostory series about women and their experiences with OB/GYN's. It may not be safe for work. No nudity, but it might not be something you want your co-workers to happen upon you looking at.

 

 

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  • I don't know what to think.

    I'm going to look at more when I get home.  But one of the first ones I clicked on was "ask me about the bruises."   That is so sad.


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  • That's how I feel too, SB. It's equal parts interesting, shocking, sad, and at moments little too annoying girl-powerey.
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  • My reaction was that it's far too melodramatic to inspire honest discourse. Hmm.
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  • it seems weird to me. and lame
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    My reaction was that it's far too melodramatic to inspire honest discourse. Hmm.

    I think I agree with you.

    The bruises one, for example, would have been just as powerful without, you know, it being on a sign over her vag.


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  • Story 25 of 33 (first one on page 3) called "Birth Rape" is interesting and very likely irritating.   Are we now referring to every instance in which a med prof. sticks his / her hand or some random instrument up you "rape."  That's ridiculous.  During labor I told the doc, "I think I just peed myself."  "Oh no - we just broke your water" she responded.  I was a little annoyed b/c its not like anyone "asked" if I wanted that done, but that's 800 bajillion light years away from the "R" word. 

  • This all sounds very Vagina Monologues-y.
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    Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
  • I didn't realize that gyno exams were such a touchy subject. I mean, I don't exactly look forward to mine, but I wouldn't create a website around them, either.

  • My first one was traumatic, but every one after that hasn't been all that bad. Even my IUD insertion was relatively painless (ha!).
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  • I took my younger sister to her first one. The look on her face when she came out of the office was priceless. 
  • Other than the couple doctors who did FITB, I have zero complaints about the people who have checked out my ladygarden.
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  • I have two stories I could add to the collection, including one involving FITB (I've told them both here before).

    Dr.s performing medical procedures w/o consent is a HUGE NO-NO to me, even something like breaking waters.  But, it's no rape for sure.

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  • fitb? finger in the butt?
  • yep.

    for me, it was because I wasn't warned.  At all.  All of a sudden and out of nowhere, the dude goosed me bareback.  It was not appreciated and together with another circumstance w. a male doctor, gave me a real fear of male OBGYNs.

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  • i got that at my 6 week checkup but expected it since i tore to there. she didnt specifically say it and i was glad because i would have puckered and that may have hurt.

    she also made me do kegels on her hand to make sure the muscle was functional. awk-waaaard

  • um.  wow.  that IS awkward.  I'm glad you told me about this so I wasn't surprised later.  It's really hard to find neither a male NOR a female OBGYN and I'd hate to risk the health of my vagina for the rest of my life.
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  • Dude, that's weird.
    I remember one exam where the doctor (I forget if it was male or female....they all sort of blend together) kept saying, "Relax this muscle.  This muscle right here.  Relax it."  I was contorting my face every which way attempting to relax a muscle I had never consciously used before.  I was probably 19 or so and had never even heard of kegels.  To be honest, I doubt I could relax whatever muscle the doc was talking about today.
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  • man, do boys have it easy.
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  • WTF does this mean?

    PLEASE! Just tell me I'm overly juicy down there because I am FAT. (it will get me off my ass & help me find a better life)
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  • i have no idea fallin. but no one should ever use the word juicy related to their vagina.
  • see, juicy vagina sounds hot to me.  Like, ready for sex.  I don't know why one's weight would cause extra juice.

    though I do find that the more weight I gain the sweatier my thigh pits become (where thigh and groin area meet).

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  • Very melodramatic.

    The one about the mom who didn't tell her daughter what to expect in the exam made me really sad.

    And I'm with tasty, juicy = sex.

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  • I don't like the word juicy. So while it does imply sex to me, it implies sex in the same way "velvet rod" or "quivering member" would.
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    Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
  • It's a bit much IMO.

    That being said OB's perform surgery & exams without consent a lot. If this is their way of feeling better, so be it.

    I have heard many women talk about their non consenting to an episiotomy and the doctor never asking but just cutting. Awful.

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