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Do you have "haters?"

So, after waking up at 5 with tons of energy (and using that energy to apply for jobs--yay!), I am now settling into that exhausted and sick feeling again, and watching a little Price is Right.  While spinning the wheel, one lady gave a shout out saying, "I love all my haters!"

This is a concept I really have no experience with, though I've heard of it, of course.  Sure, there are people I don't like, and I'm sure people who don't like me, but it's not like we sit around actively hating each other in our own homes, fuming and scheming or whatever it is haters do.  I'm sure I couldn't even tell you five people I don't like without giving it some thought.  If I don't like you, I stop thinking about you.  I'm certainly not wasting energy hating you.

Do you have haters?  Do you think about them?

Re: Do you have "haters?"

  • Haha... I dont think so.  I'm kinda the same way - if I dont like you, I pretty much avoid you/don't think about it.  Except for my boss... but honestly we would probably get along fine if I only knew him outside of work so that doesnt count.

     

  • The only one that I know of is my EvSIL.  It used to really bother me, but now only does a little.  Mostly now I just miss my relationship with my brother and am saddened that there is such a bad one with a SIL.  Unless she's recently done something to tick me off I just ignore the situation...can't really make it any worse...
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  • Yup- my IL's.  MIL, her mother, BIL's wife, and now BIL.  The list grows each week.  I don't care except they are currenlty making DH and I miserable through phone calls, texts, and talking sh!t about us to FIL and his side of the family.

    I will start a new thread with the details because I may DD after a while.

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  • I wish I could stop thinking about my haters, but sadly, they are now family. My MIL and my SIL both hate me and the feeling is mutual. I'm fine with it though.
  • Oh, that's much sadder that the haters are family.  I didn't mean to bring that up.  This woman was just so gleeful--I love the haters!  Like they were jealous peers or something.
  • I don't think I have any "haters". I tend to avoid people that I don't like or don't get along with to avoid confrontation. I guess I feel like the stress associated with dealing with or thinking about those people isn't worth my time.

     

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