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Broken Hearted- tragic

My highschool friend lost her son last night. He was 15 years old and devastated over a girl breaking up with him. So he hung himself in her backyard. His mom found him. He was still alive, but barely clinging to life. He lived a few days and passed last night. My heart is broken for her. She loved that kid so much. He was from a really good home and was very popular in school. No one saw something like this coming.

If you have a teenager in your life, please reach out to them. Let them know that they have a friend to lean on. Sometimes they don't want to go to Mom or Dad but another adult may be a good friend that can help them get through those painful highschool years. Those years are particularly hard on boys who are expected to be tough and not emotional. And reach out to an adult friend to take your kids under their wing when they need it. It really does take a village to raise these kids. We can't do it alone.

Hug your babies mommas.

 

 

 

 

 

Re: Broken Hearted- tragic

  • Oh my goodness. That is the saddest thing I've ever heard. My heart is breaking for your friend and her family. Tragic. Seriously tragic. Hugs to you Gerrie and T&Ps to your friend.
  • I'm sooooo sorry to hear about this tragic loss!!! I will keep everyone in my T&Ps!
  • that is so so sad. :-( I'm keeping everyone in that situation in my thoughts and prayers. And I agree, teens need someone other then mom and dad that they feel like they can turn to.
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  • I am so sorry...this is so sad.  Hopefully something good can come from this tragedy and his friends can learn a very important lesson.  Nothing is worth taking your life over.  I've been there and I am so glad that I was able to get the help I needed - I would have missed out on a fantastic life.  Those years are so hard but they do pass eventually.

    T&P for you friend and her family.

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  • I'm sorry for your friends loss :( Terribly sad. I'll keep them in my thoughts and prayers.

  • truly heartbreaking.  i can't even imagine.  i'm so sorry.  i am sitting here with tears in my eyes, thinking of who i can reach out to, to offer a friendly shoulder.  i'll be praying for all of the families/friends who are effected by this terrible loss.
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    I'm so sorry Gerrie.  Will keep them in my thoughts and prayers...

    And when I see my little sister, between this one and the one I know of from last week, I'm going to give her a HUGE hug (she's 15) and tell her she can always talk to me.

  • Oh My Gerrie I'm so sorry... Hugs for you and your friend. T & P's

  • That's so terrible. My heart and thoughts go out to her and her family. Teen depression is horrible. You put up a wall and front so people don't have a clue, when really, you want people to know, just don't want to say it first. I went through that, it was terrible, looking back, how I felt, the thoughts I had. There was so much that could have been done to help, but it didn't happen often. You're right Gerrie, so many teenagers need to be reached out to, even if they act like they don't want it. Because really, they do.
  • This is awful Gerrie.  I am so sorry.  I have 3 teenage neices and your right we all need to let them know we are here for them to talk to.

    Gosh. Heartbreaking. 

  • That's awful.  I'm sending tons of T&Ps to your friend and her family.  I can't even imagine how tough this is for her.
  • Oh my gosh that is so sad =( I can't imagine what she is going thru...ughhh. Yeah, Im trying to think of any teens that I can help!
  • That is so sad.  I'm so sorry to hear this Gerrie.  Your friend is in my prayers.  Teenagers just don't understand how fragile life is.  I feel terrible for your friend and her family.  I can't even imagine what she is going through. 

  • I'm so sorry to hear about this Gerrie. Sending lots of T & P to your friend's family. xoxo
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  • That is so sad! I have tears in my eyes thinking about what that mother must be going through, I can not even imagine that kind of pain!  I will keep their family in my prayers!
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  • My heart goes out to the family and lots of prayer. I'm lost for words right now but lots and lots of prayers.

  • Oh, Gerrie!

    I am so so sorry for you and for your friend!  That is so awful!

    I cannot even fathom.

    Prayers to you and her family for peace and comfort. 

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  • Gerrie- I am so sorry for you and your friend. I will keep her family in my prayers!
  • I'm so sorry for your friend's loss. We lost 4 kids at my highschool in a two month span to suicide when I was a freshman and it just hurt so much. 14 years later it still haunts me. I'm so sorry to hear this sad news.
  • gerrie... that is so tragic! i am so sad for your friend.. sending t&p their way.
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  • Praying for you all, how terrible.
  • Ugh, I can't even imagine!  I am so sorry to hear this.  Oh my goodness.  So incredibly sad.
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