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TMI
To have anal or not?
Re: TMI
DONT!
I really see no pleasure in it myself...
What's the harm in trying? Use lots of lube and go slow.
It's not like if you do it once, it's all you can do for the rest of your life...
None of us can tell you whether or not to have anal sex...
My husband and I are BOTH not interested and are unwilling to try anal sex.
Round #6- 7.5mg Femara+ .5mg Dex+ 75iu Gonal-F+ hCG trigger+ IUI=BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)- 94 Beta#2(22dpo)- 1,619 Beta#3 (28dpo)- 11,396!!!
If you want, that's your prerogative, not strangers on an internet message board.
If you do, use lots of lube, a condom and tell your partner to go slow.
But note: he was quite small. He also was careful about penetration. I'm sure this contributed to the result.
I've tried it twice with my current. It hurts. Bad. No matter how slow we've taken it. With how much lube. I cannot possibly imagine having an orgasm and I don't even want to try again.
So. My verdict personally: Small = Yay. Larger = He!! No.
Agreed. Try it a few times if you want to give it a fair shot. Most people who do end up enjoying it have to try for a while before it really becomes pleasurable.
I'll also second Froggy--the level of discomfort will depend on the size and shape of your man.
Definitely try it but build up to it. Try a finger first, lots of lube, and try easing down on it from the top rather than starting out from behind. Also it helps if you have an O first, and if you use a vibrator or finger on your clit once he's in. Good luck - enjoy - be safe -and report back!!
Doing it properly, no harm done and no pain. Too quick without relaxing and not enough lube, it's going to hurt.
I can make DH come at any time just by squeezing it tighter back there.
It wasn't very long ago here and still in the 3rd world. Anal is used regular as birth control.
I really enjoy it. Didn't first couple of times, but it grew on me, and now I request it sometimes.