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Hi Everyone

Hi Everyone!

Hope you're all well and had a nice 4th of July.

 It's been a while since I last posted.  Things haven't been going well.  What's new?

Re: Hi Everyone

  • It must have been a while because I don't recognize your screen name.  Why aren't things going well?
    I'd rather be rock climbing or playing volleyball
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  • LOL!! It's been about a year.  There's some screen names that I remember and I see some new ones :-)

    It's really hard to say.  I've been dealing with the fact that my husband has been less than faithful.  To put it mildly.  Today is a good day for me emotionally, so I wanted to come on and say hi and see how everyone is doing.

  • I'm sorry, I don't recognize you either :-/ But I wanted to say I'm really sorry you are having hard times with your husband being unfaithful.
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  • I'm so sorry. Hope you're able to figure out how to move on and do what's best for you.
    I'd rather be rock climbing or playing volleyball
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  • I am really sorry to hear that.  Please know that we are here if you need to vent etc.  We are here to support you. 
    TTC #1 BFP #1 M/C November 13, 2010 BFP #2 M/C April 20, 2011 BFP #3 We lost our baby girl who is forever in our hearts.
  • Thanks, Jess.

     How was everyone's 4th?

  • imagesmj01:

    Thanks, Jess.

     How was everyone's 4th?

    There's a post about the 4th somewhere if you scroll back a little bit. But, in short, mine was great because I was in Barbados!

    I'd rather be rock climbing or playing volleyball
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  • Thanks, I'll have to look for it.

     Barbados!  How fun!  I bet it was an awesome time!

    We had a small family picnic and took the kids to see the fireworks.

  • Hi!

    That really sucks. Since penis cutting is generally frowned upon, you should say, "Honey? You know all that money we have saved and that you have made over the past x years? Well. It's mine now. Buh Bye."

    Just saying. 

  • imagePunkyBooster:

    Hi!

    That really sucks. Since penis cutting is generally frowned upon, you should say, "Honey? You know all that money we have saved and that you have made over the past x years? Well. It's mine now. Buh Bye."

    Just saying. 

     That's easier said than done, trust me.  Throwing 10 yrs of marriage out in the trash is a big decision to make.  We've known each other since we were kids and have two kids of our own.  Not easy.  Adding being unemployed for 4 yrs makes for no moving money.

  • imagesmj01:
    imagePunkyBooster:

    Hi!

    That really sucks. Since penis cutting is generally frowned upon, you should say, "Honey? You know all that money we have saved and that you have made over the past x years? Well. It's mine now. Buh Bye."

    Just saying. 

     That's easier said than done, trust me.  Throwing 10 yrs of marriage out in the trash is a big decision to make.  We've known each other since we were kids and have two kids of our own.  Not easy.  Adding being unemployed for 4 yrs makes for no moving money.

    Ah. I figured you were a "newlywed" with the status. My bad. 

  • That's ok.  I just found this board last year. 

  • I just looked at your previous posts and I remember who you are now. Again I'm really sorry for the situation you're in. I hope you whatever you decide on is the best decision for you and the kids.
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  • LOL!! Thanks Jcam.Smile

    Yes, it's a hard decision.  Lots of things to take into consideration.

     Congratulations on the baby!  You're going to love being a Mom

  • Aww thank you :-) I can't wait!

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  • Do you know what you're having?  Or are you waiting?  I couldn't wait.  Had to know with both of them.
  • It's a surprise! It hasn't been hard for me at all, but all my life I have wanted to be surprised so I never imagined it any other way, so I think that is why it isn't hard for me. I always dreamed about planning for the unknown while pregnant, I guess. Because I am totally that girl who never dreamed about her wedding as a kid, but dreamed about being a mom. Such a dork, I know :-P
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  • Nope, not a dork LOL!  I don't really recall dreaming about my wedding like most girls do, down to the detail etc.. But I'm a planner/organizer with a little OCD thrown into the mix.  So I needed to know the gender.  Had to make sure everything was perfect and ready to go.  I was even up on chairs hanging the borders in the nursery at 8 1/2 months pregnant.  I was registered at 3 months.  LOL!!

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