Need big creative ideas

jersangl · July 2010

Been married 3 years. I am just so bored with our sex life. I want to spice things up. My DH doesnt seem interested though. I dont know where to start. I feel like I cant get DH in the mood at all anymore. Its like he is bored of me also. Wearing lingerie doesnt do anything, mastubrating in front of him does nothing. I need some ideas. I need big ideas

TarponMonoxide · July 2010

Not all guys are into lingerie or watching a show.:)

Have you spoken to him at length? If not, I strongly suggest you do.

What originally turned him on? Try that and then go from there.

ZestofLime · July 2010

I see you have a LO in your siggy. Might your H just be exhausted with all the strains of adulthood and parenting? (Obviously, you are as well.)

How about a weekend away together? You could leave your LO with your parents/ILs/other family member and plan a romantic getaway - catch up on sleep, drink too much wine, have a long relaxing dinner together, etc.

jersangl · July 2010

Yeah probably a combination of everything. We did get away last month for a weekend getaway. I think it's just me who feels this way. I just want more romance, time together. I am so bored. I dont know how to get him to be part of that though. If I come up with ideas, I am sure he will do them with me

iluvmytxrgr · July 2010

I bought a plastic shower curtain from the Dollar Store and a huge bottle of baby oil. I sent the kids to my mom's for the night. We went to dinner. When we got home, I set him to the kitchen to open a bottle of wine. I just so happend to make the cork screw a little harder to find than normal. While he was looking for it, I spread out the shower curtain on the floor. I offered him a massage. Things got a little messy from there. It was fun.

EngineerAaron · July 2010

oldbugle:
Maybe your marriage/relationship has run it's course....perhaps it's time for a divorce, or a boyfriend,...or a threesome....

Stop being weird, old man.

glittergal73 · July 2010

Sometimes the best ideas are the simple ones. When he's in the shower, jump in with him wearing a thin white t shirt. Wear something lingerie related that is very different from what you normally wear. try sex outdoors. Try sex in a different room in your house. Try a new position. Send him sexy pictures on his phone. Give him a massage with a happy ending in bed and let him go to sleep without returning the favor. He can owe you one;-) Have fun!

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