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sad day :(

DH's granddad had a massive heart attack yesterday, everything is snowballing from there and it does not look good.  DH is really, really sad.  The most emotional I have ever seen.

Baby Jack (John IV) will never get to meet John I.  DH has always put a picture of the 3 of them (I-III) on his desk and was really looking forward to updating it.

We are looking into flights back but at this point it only seems like DH will go.

I *knew* we should have flown out for a vist in the Spring.  But SIL is having a baby in Aug. and DH's family put a major guilt trip on us to come out for that too and we could only really afford one trip so we had to wait until Sept.

Re: sad day :(

  • I'm so sorry!

    Don't beat yourself up over not going in the spring. You made the best decision for yourselves given the circumstances! I'm sure if your ILs had known this was going to happen, they wouldn't have pushed so hard for you to come out in September.

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    So sorry to hear this =( It's hard to plan for these things ahead of time and I'm sorry that it didn't work out for you guys to visit earlier. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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  • Oh, Robbi, I'm sorry.  :(  It sucks when your gut tells you something and you can't follow through on it.  Thoughts and prayers to your family.
  • So sorry :( You couldn't have known....don't feel bad. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
    andrea and ryan . june 2010 . maui.olowalu
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  • Robbi, I am so sorry!  I'm saying a big prayer for you guys right now.  Let me know if you need anything, you know I am close.  Again, I am so sorry to you and the family.
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  • I'm so sorry, Robbie.  My thoughts are with you and your family.
  • Oh no, I am so so sorry to hear this news.  I'm thinking of you *big hugs*
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this, and sending lots of T&P to you and DH. 
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  • Oh no, I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending lots of hugs, thoughts and prayers to you and your family.  I am also so sorry that baby Jack hasn't met his eldest namesake.  That is very sad, but I am sure he will grow up learing all about his grandfather and feeling very connected to him.
  • I am so sorry to hear this :(  Sending you and your family LOTS of thoughts and prayers.  ((big hugs)) 
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  • I am so sorry Robbi.  My thoughts are with you and your family.  hugs.
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  • thanks everyone.  With a heavy heart I have to post that he passed away this morning.

    I was good and bit my tongue when MIL said it was so sad that Jack didn't get to meet him as if it was my fault.

    DH is flying there tomorrow.

  • So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and condolences are with you and your family.
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  • just getting online to see this now. i'm so sorry for your loss :(  have you thought about trying priceline to get a ticket there? might be worth a try but i don't know how much work will let you take off... T&P with you during this hard time
  • I'm so sorry Robbi.  It won't help Jack meet John I, but if you're looking to attend the funeral, most airlines have bereavement policies - not sure how much it will save you, but might be worth looking into.  My condolences to you and your family.  :(
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  • I'm so sorry about the loss in your family. ((Hugs))
  • I'm so sorry to read this.  My thoughts are with you.
  • I am so sorry.  Hang in there...and no regrets...it won't change things anyway.  Hopefully the three of you can go, but if not, I am sure your DH's grandfather knows how much you love him. 
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