June 2010 Weddings
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Have you seen this? So sad

My heart is breaking for her.  I couldn't imagine going through anything like this especially a week before you were supposed to get married.

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2010-weddings_not-getting-married-next-week_.0

Re: Have you seen this? So sad

  • Yes, it is very sad. I responded to both of the threads already. I can't imagine going through what she is going through right now. She will definitely be in my prayers.
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  • Wow. :( That is sooo freakin' sad. It makes me cherish my time with my H even more. You never know how long you have with the ones you love. :( I love him too much to waste that time! Geez, I can't imagine how long it would take to get past that and move on wtih your life. It'd be almost impossible!
  • That is super sad. I don't think I would want to be on a wedding website with a bunch of women who either just hot married or are about to. Don't get me wrong I feel really bad for her but there is something about her posting about it so soon that makes me side eye her.
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    That is super sad. I don't think I would want to be on a wedding website with a bunch of women who either just hot married or are about to. Don't get me wrong I feel really bad for her but there is something about her posting about it so soon that makes me side eye her.

     

    When my brother committed suicide 2 years ago, I looked for all of the support I could get.  I immediately joined an online support group and began talking with people that I never met.  I was looking for people not only to offer their condolences, (because, let's face it, kind words do help!), but to also VALIDATE what I was feeling.  Unfortunately, until you live through a situation where someone you love commits suicide, you really have no right to question how someone deals with it.

  • She is on mine and Bella's Local. It is very tragic!! And I agree Fern! People need to reach out to anyone, anyhow they can!

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  • ditto midge and fern.

     

    im sure she's been planning with these women for a long time. i know i look to my old balls for support when i need it, even though i've never met any of you before.

  • I'm sorry, I didn't mean for it to come off like I thought what she was doing was wrong, and you're all right, that she does need support. I guess what took me as odd, and maybe this is just a personal thing, was that she was online telling people so soon. That may just be me though. I tend to be a pretty private person when it comes to death. When my father died I didn't tell anyone outside of my family until about a week later, but that's just me.

    I am sorry if I offened any one.

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