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Funny to see people get suspicious in the other thread. Makes me wonder...
[Poll]
Re: s/o poll: infidelity
This poll makes me sad.
if he stopped playing his video games long enough for something other than meals and sleeping to enter his head, i might worry. but in the 7 years i've known him, it hasn't happened so far, so i'm not worried.
j/k
LOL!
LOL! Ditto, except I don't know if I should put JK. haha.
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I agree, but I also believe that there is a big difference in the kind of man that would and that would not go outside the marriage. But most of the time the women that are with a man that would go outside the marriage (myself included with an ex-bf) are usually too blinded by their love or image of the love she has for him.
This was me...
this. I answered no and never but I think it's human nature to wonder sometimes. for those that answered other then those two or the yes in past but not now *hugs*.
Sounds like my DH. PS3 is his mistress.
Sounds like my DH. PS3 is his mistress.
But isn't that essentially what a marriage is based on- trust? Of course majority of us would assume our SO wouldn't cheat on us, that's why we're married. I think infidelity is an incredibly unfortunate and sad thing to happen, but I do appreciate how many other people still have faith in their SO. And that we're not questioning, wondering, challenging our DHs.
Also, there has to be something wrong for infidelity to occur. Some imbalance somewhere, that causes one person to go outside of the relationship. I don't mean a fault, just a crack somewhere. There are also times where a woman will tell you "nothing is wrong" but she knows that there's something going on, even if she won't admit it to herself.
I had to laugh out loud. Are there so many people who can say their relationship/marriage is perfectly balanced? No cracks? I can admit mine isn't perfectly balanced. But maybe I'm alone in that respect. I think knowing your risks and limitations are what allows you to overcome them.