June 2009 Weddings
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Selling my wedding dress...maybe.

I had it cleaned and preserved last year and it's been in a box at my grandmother's house ever since - I haven't even looked at it twice since the wedding. I posted it on Craiglist last night and someone emailed me about it tonight. Every rational part of me is saying that selling it would be a good thing. I'm never going to put it on again and I wouldn't expect my hypothetical daughter to wear it. I have dozens of pictures of me in the dress and even the dress by itself. There's just this teeny tiny nagging voice that's saying that I'll regret selling it. Truthfully, I don't think anyone will actually buy it for what I'm asking so it may be a moot point.
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Re: Selling my wedding dress...maybe.

  • Mine still hasn't been cleaned...

    Do you think you may have another use for it (aside from it sitting in a box)? Like, I'm actually interested in seeing if we could cut up the fabric from mine and turn it into a quilt or something (either a big quilt for me & DH or, if it's still hanging lamely in the closet years from now, baby quilts for our hypothetical future children).

    I think you may experience seller's remorse for a while, but I think it will quickly fade as other things come along.

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  • I think it would pain me more to cut it up than to sell it honestly. The thing is, we really need a new mattress. If I get my asking price for the dress, it would pay for the mattress we really want and would use for several years to come. I'll have to wait and see how interested this person is.
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  • Also in the not cleaned camp. 

    I'd have mixed feelings for sure if I was in your position. I thought I'd sell mine, but even if it was cleaned, I don't know if I could go through with it. I could even get more money than what I paid.

     

     But if you can get a good chunk of money, you can always wipe the tears away with some dollar bills.  

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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • Well, I posted it for $750 so we'll see.
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  • As a person who is sitting on her just two hours old new mattress set ... sell the dress. 
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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • Mine hasn't been cleaned either. I don't even know where it is, honestly. Indifferent

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  • imagemamie329:
    As a person who is sitting on her just two hours old new mattress set ... sell the dress. 

    I hate you for having a wonderful new mattress (well...not really...just a teeny bit) . I'm sick of sleeping like crap and waking up in pain due to our horrible set. 

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  • Aww. Does it make it better than our old set was purchased six years at a USED MATTRESS STORE? Granted it was in decent shape (an old Serta Perfect Sleeper) and had no dips or impressions, but the box spring was deteriorating so bad around the edges it kept falling INTO the middle of the frame. 

    New bed: http://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/PMbIFvTbKHohQEUJ4IU5dbZ4VBnl6qQeEUpYKwmDfOU?feat=directlink

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    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • Mine is cleaned, preserved and in a box too.  The only thing that is keeping me from selling it is my mom.  She says I'll regret it - when I ask why, she tells me that she was so mad at her mom for somehow losing her wedding dress so that she couldn't at least try it on to see if she wanted to wear it for her wedding.  Her dress has been boxed and preserved and in the closet for years.  My sister and I never once thought of wearing it but it doesnt phase her.  She says if we need a thousand bucks that bad, let her know.  I kinda feel like she paid for it so she sorta has a right to tell me to keep it.  So in the closet it stays.
  • I am super sentimental and a packrat.  That dress got cleaned right away and has been sitting in a box, unlooked at, ever since but I will never get rid of it.  I don't expect my hypothetical daugher to wear it, but she might want to try it on one day.  Or just get a laugh out of what people used to wear in the 00s.
  • I'm in the "haven't cleaned it yet" club. It's at my mom's house somewhere, I actually haven't seen it at all since the wedding day.

    As much as I'd love the extra cash, I don't think I could bring myself to sell it. 

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  • Also not cleaned yet... I would totally sell mine.  I didn't love it, but it looked good on me and fit my price range... and I was tired of trying on dresses and feeling fat.  I liked it a lot more after I lost weight and had it altered, but it was never The Dress.  I did photos and TTDs for fun (for $20), but it only got a little dirt on it. I'm so done with it.  BUT.  You should have seen the look on DH's face when I suggested selling it.  You'd think I had suggested selling the dog.  So it's still in the closet.
  • Is there any extra room in the dirty dress clubhouse?  Plus, my only reason for not selling is that I'm too lazy to get it cleaned and list it for sale.  How lame is that?!
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