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trying to stay strong
So, they didnt choose me for the Job position that I really Really wanted.
I am being pretty strong about it now... I just keep thinking
1. if i was to get preg soon...what if the insurance wouldnt cover it yet since its a new company and new plan (they might have a waiting period)
2. The one who did get it ...is most likely order and more experienced.
Despite being Ok with it now...I know without a doubt that once my husband gets home, Im going to be a blubbering crying mess.
curious if you girls are this way? I cry so easily when Im with kyle...cause its not just about me...its about letting him down too
lol... I guess im not strong... that makes me cry just thinking about telling my husband.
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Re: trying to stay strong
Jessy, sorry to hear you didn't get the position you wanted. I'm sure it'll all work out for the best though! You are right you would probably have a waiting period with the insurance which you don't want to be without if you do get pregnant.
It's ok to be upset about it- but you're not letting Kyle down- he's your husband and will support you no matter what! You are a team now more than ever and I'm sure he won't view it as "she let us down".
It will all work out for the best so keep your chin up and just sob it out if you need to, then let your being upset go away and keep plugging along. You'll be fine and we're here for you! :::hugs:::
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This has to be hard, but you are not supposed to have the job. I truly believe things happen for a reason, so try to see it that way.
Your DH will just be a shoulder to cry on, I am sure. That is how my hubby gets. He just listens and that is the best thing anyone can do.
And you are strong! Never think that you aren't. Everyone gets discouraged about these types of situations and if you didn't let yourself cry, it would probably not be good!
It'll be ok.
Danielle
Tons of positive vibes being sent your way! Hang in there!!!
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