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Totally overwhelmed

Sorry I've been MIA but I'm totally overwhelmed at work right now.  I got a new job, and it's a TON of work. right now i'm pulling 10 hour days, 7 days a week.  I'm running into a bunch of problems getting the work done, (not my fault, just the nature of the job) and I'm just feeling really bad about everything.

Not to mention, hubby and I were planning to put our house on the market yesterday so we can move closer to my job and my family, and then we find out we can't get another mortgage!! WTF?!? My hubby is self-employed, and apparently you can't get a loan unless you've had your business for 2 full years.  His has been running for 17 months.  I'm so frustrated it's ridiculous.  

 Sorry for the vent...it feels good to type it all out!!!! 

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Re: Totally overwhelmed

  • Oh that is frustrating!!!  But I'm sure the next 7 months will just fly by, especially if you're so busy at work.  Vent here all you need to!
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  • Can you get the mortgage without him on the loan?  That's what Adam and I did.  We just got it in my name because Adam had a ton of medical bills that were affecting his credit.
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  • I'm sorry your so overwhelmed! I like Sara's suggestion, see if you can get one without your hubby on it.

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  • Wow, that sucks! Hope things slow down soon and that you guys can work something out for the mortgage.
  • I did the same thing as Sara. I bought the house :) Cuz I'm a big girl!!

     

    Hope things calm down a bit at work for you! And soon! That just sounds like way too much work. 

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  • That sucks about the mortgage.  Hopefully you can figure something out.  And hopefully things will get better with your job because that does sound really overwhelming.
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  • Hugs! Good Luck and vent here as often as you like we are here to lift you up! I would totally look into getting the loan on my own if I were you.
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    Thanks girls! you always make me feel better.

    We looked into getting the loan under just my income, but he makes way more than I do, so we couldn't buy what we wanted to buy.  I think we've figured out some sort of loophole, so i'm praying things come through.   

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