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How often...

Do you and the hubby have sexy time?  Please specify quickie:full-on-sex ratio.  Thanks. :)
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Re: How often...

  • Usually about once a week, sometimes twice. I'm a weekend girl---I have a hard time focusing on sexy time when I'm in the middle of the workweek.
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  • Currently, at least 3 times a week.  We almost always fall somewhere between quickie and full on sex. 

    We go through phases, where I could easily go without sex for weeks at a time. 

  • Since we only see each other on weekends, that's all we got - usually 2-3 times in a weekend. Most times, it's full-on sex...we rarely have quickies. We like to take our time. :)
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  • 2-3 times a week and almost always full on. Some weeks it's more some weeks less. It just depends on whats going on. I've been stressed with school lately so this week has been less.
  • Mostly we wait until the weekend. It's really hard to try to fit it into the weekday since it would be after M goes down for bed. And then by that point I'm exhausted and trying to get everything ready for tomorrow and the last thing on my mind is jumping DH.

    If it gets to the point where we just have to do it then it's usually a quickie.

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  • A couple times a week. It's usually a happy meduim between a quickie and full blown.
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  • imageamidavey06:

    Mostly we wait until the weekend. It's really hard to try to fit it into the weekday since it would be after M goes down for bed. And then by that point I'm exhausted and trying to get everything ready for tomorrow and the last thing on my mind is jumping DH.

    If it gets to the point where we just have to do it then it's usually a quickie.

    Yes! I'm right there with you!

  • Around twice a week.  I'm a morning person and H is a night person, so it's harder because our chemistry is on at different times.  The weekends are perfect though, because we both get what we want.  I'd say at least one out of two is a quickie.  I usually like an "in between" full on and quickie, and I think he does too.  Rarely do we EVER go more than 4 days without sex.  We start fighting if we do--gotta unleash the inner beast, you know?
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  • Some weeks it could be 3 or 4, some weeks it could be 2 or 3. I don't like quickies so it's usually full on. I'm with BoyMom we start fighting over little things if it's less than 2 a week. 
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  • Usually 5 times a week (if H is in town).  I'd say 3 of those are quickie.
  • Usually about twice a week.  We don't really do quickies.
  • It really just depends on H schedule and how late he is working. On the norm it is atleast once a week to 4 times a week. There have been times when we haven't had sexy time in a couple of weeks and just like Boymom and Allyson we start fighting so I try to not let that happen. If it were up to H we would have it all the freakin time. There are time we say its going to be a quicky but it ends up being full blown.
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  • imagetbvenable:
    If it were up to H we would have it all the freakin time.

    Yup.  Same here. I am def the deciding factor on how many times/week we have sex.  There's ALWAYS an ass grab, boob pat, weiner swipe across the back while I'm sitting, etc.  Nastayyyyy.  LOL!

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    weiner swipe across the back

    LOL

  • I'd say we average 4 times a week--of course sometimes it's more, sometimes less.  We very rarely go more than 4 days without having sex though.
    Weekend sex usually lasts longer than weekday sex, but it's all good.
    Weekday sexy time is usually in the shower in the morning--I wouldn't say they're quickie sessions, but they don't last as long as they would if we were in a different location.


  • imageBoyMom21:

    imagetbvenable:
    If it were up to H we would have it all the freakin time.

    weiner swipe across the back

    It's a good thing I've seen pics and met T before, otherwise I'd wonder if we were married to the same man LOL  I think my favorite is when I fall asleep on the couch and wake up to penis in my face haha
  • imageBoyMom21:

    imagetbvenable:
    If it were up to H we would have it all the freakin time.

    Yup.  Same here. I am def the deciding factor on how many times/week we have sex.  There's ALWAYS an ass grab, boob pat, weiner swipe across the back while I'm sitting, etc.  Nastayyyyy.  LOL!

    My husband is diiiirty too!  I have to say that right now he can not keep his hands off of me and I am easily irritated by boob grabs. At the same time I know that if it all stopped I would feel less attractive so I will just deal with it.  Wink

  • imageBoyMom21:

    imagetbvenable:
    If it were up to H we would have it all the freakin time.

    Yup.  Same here. I am def the deciding factor on how many times/week we have sex.  There's ALWAYS an ass grab, boob pat, weiner swipe across the back while I'm sitting, etc.  Nastayyyyy.  LOL!

    OMG that is the stuff my H does! We were swimming the other day he kept trying to have sexy time-which would have been okay but other people where around and there was no way it was going to happen. LOL My H is a Nastayyyyy boy too.

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  • We're "once-a-weekers," typically. Sometimes I want it more, so we have it more. Yes, I'm in control of when we do it. Stick out tongue
  • I am also in control of how often.  If it were up to H it would be every day, but we are more every other day or every 2 days.  Sometimes it is everyday on the weekends if my parents keep V overnight.  Oh, and we usually just do it sort of quick in case a child wakes up Stick out tongue

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  • We have been going about once a week to 2 weeks these days (before pregnancy it was about 2-3x a week). Between being pregnant, H having to be at work at like 5 am and Conner not going to bed until b/t 9:30 and 10 it just doesn't happen. Thank goodness we finally got the boy in his own bed though. I would say for the most part if the kid is at home it's a medium quickie...if he's away it's longer.
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  • Almost daily, sometimes more. ;). Nooners are my friend since he lives and works two miles from my office, but otherwise it's the real thing.
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  • imagewendyld:
    Almost daily, sometimes more. ;). Nooners are my friend since he lives and works two miles from my office, but otherwise it's the real thing.

    Say what?  When did you meet this fine lad?

  • imagestripesandspots:

    imagewendyld:
    Almost daily, sometimes more. ;). Nooners are my friend since he lives and works two miles from my office, but otherwise it's the real thing.

    Say what?  When did you meet this fine lad?

    Dang, my girl parts would be raw!

  • imagestripesandspots:

    imagewendyld:
    Almost daily, sometimes more. ;). Nooners are my friend since he lives and works two miles from my office, but otherwise it's the real thing.

    Say what?  When did you meet this fine lad?

    Ha! I expected that would get some action.  I met him a few months ago (he was doing some contract work with my company).  I'm definitely having fun with it though.

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  • imagewendyld:
    imagestripesandspots:

    imagewendyld:
    Almost daily, sometimes more. ;). Nooners are my friend since he lives and works two miles from my office, but otherwise it's the real thing.

    Say what?  When did you meet this fine lad?

    Ha! I expected that would get some action.  I met him a few months ago (he was doing some contract work with my company).  I'm definitely having fun with it though.

    I am way impressed by this - congrats!

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