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• lisa2008boo member

  

  July 2010

  My husband would hate that I do modeling part time I don;t do any nudity. And he would hate me getting naked in front of another man anyone that is not him should not see me naked I am for his eyes only. But if it works for you good luck =]
  

  
  "A women who can kneel before the Lord can stand up to anything"

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• JustDuckyDancer

  July 2010

  You do realize that not all photographers are male right? I have a boudoir session set up for a gift for my husband for our 1st anniversary and the photographer AND her assistant are female.
  

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• lisa2008boo member

  

  July 2010

  Yes I do but he wouldn't care male or female my body is for his eyes only and vice versa. But that's just us you need to really know your man before doing this it could back fire on you that's all I'm saying.
  

  
  "A women who can kneel before the Lord can stand up to anything"

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• JustDuckyDancer

  July 2010

  You also realize that you don't have to be nude in them too right?
  

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• lisa2008boo member

  

  July 2010

  Well considering this is the sex & romance  section I would assume she was talking about a sexy lingerie/nude shoot as a gift for her husband. So there would need to be some kind of a level of sexuality going on that you may want to make sure your husband is ok with you doing in front of another person before just going and doing it. Or as I said it could blow up in your face.
  

  
  "A women who can kneel before the Lord can stand up to anything"

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• JustDuckyDancer

  July 2010

  Lingerie covers just as much as a bathing suit does. And like I said before, you don't have to be nude if you don't want to be. And my H has no problem with this type of stuff, so don't worry about that.
  

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• lisa2008boo member

  

  July 2010

  Well and that's fine no need to get mad. All I said was that it's not something I would do personally but if you know he won't have a problem then go for it good luck and I hope he enjoys it. =]
  

  
  "A women who can kneel before the Lord can stand up to anything"

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• JustDuckyDancer

  July 2010

  lol Where did I ever say I was mad?
  

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• MartiniChick01

  July 2010

  Krytal:

  aside from the back and forth I am thinking of doing this for DH.  Anyone have any tips/regrets/critiques to share about it?

  It might blow up in your face...just sayin'.
  

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• Krytal

  July 2010

  ha ha ha

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• chloephoebecali member

  July 2010

  Do you think this was a promotional post?  Only one post???

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• lisa2008boo member

  

  July 2010

  Well you didn't say you were mad but you seemed like you were getting frustrated because I didn't agree with you but again have fun and i hope your husband likes the gift =]
  

  
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• belovedbride07 member

  July 2010

  chloephoebecali:

  Do you think this was a promotional post?  Only one post???

  Yeah, one post telling us we should get our photos done and oh! here's a handy link...that was my first thought.
  

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• KAnde818

  July 2010

  belovedbride07:

  chloephoebecali:

  Do you think this was a promotional post?  Only one post???

  Yeah, one post telling us we should get our photos done and oh! here's a handy link...that was my first thought.
  

  Definitely an advertisement, just sayin!
  

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• JustDuckyDancer

  July 2010

  lisa2008boo:

  Well you didn't say you were mad but you seemed like you were getting frustrated because I didn't agree with you but again have fun and i hope your husband likes the gift =]
  

  No, you assumed I was mad and frustrated. I was just offering another perspective. Perhaps you were the frustrated one?
  

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• lifeguard member

  

  July 2010

  lisa2008boo:

  Yes I do but he wouldn't care male or female my body is for his eyes only and vice versa. But that's just us you need to really know your man before doing this it could back fire on you that's all I'm saying.
  

   

    How do you manage to visit your physician? Change in a change room or swim at the pool? Don't know if you even noticed but a swim suit or spandex hides nothing. May as well be wearing only body paint.

     Ever notice that in numerous warm weather countries, Asian,European and Norwegian cultures.Semi naked and naked people in the village square, on the beach,swimming,hot tub or sauna is normal and raises no eyebrows?  

     Don't be such a prude or think your vag is special. Every women has one. 

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• gwynnetx

  July 2010

  lifeguard:

  lisa2008boo:

  Yes I do but he wouldn't care male or female my body is for his eyes only and vice versa. But that's just us you need to really know your man before doing this it could back fire on you that's all I'm saying.
  

   

    How do you manage to visit your physician? Change in a change room or swim at the pool? Don't know if you even noticed but a swim suit or spandex hides nothing. May as well be wearing only body paint.

     Ever notice that in numerous warm weather countries, Asian,European and Norwegian cultures.Semi naked and naked people in the village square, on the beach,swimming,hot tub or sauna is normal and raises no eyebrows?  

     Don't be such a prude or think your vag is special. Every women has one. 

  this.  an actual professional, whether it's a photographer or a physician, does not view you from a sexual standpoint.  sounds like you are projecting your views or reactions to such a situation, in this instance a boudoir shoot, onto the professional.  while your dh may see the pictures and be sexually stimulated, the photographer in all likelihood sees them in a totally different way.  while your dh may be sexually stimulated by you posing in a provocative way while wearing next to nothing, a photographer doing a job is probably thinking about angles and lighting.  i like to think that my dh is smart enough to figure this out.

  

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• GroomzMcFinehiney

  July 2010

  I used thebourdoisdivas.com and they came to my house and tried to have their way with me.  Then they hit my mom with a baseball bat and peed on my dog.  It was all very traumatic.  And the pictures were not so good either.

  
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• TattooedMommy

  July 2010

  chloephoebecali:

  Do you think this was a promotional post?  Only one post???

  This def = SPAM

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• kaylasueellett

  July 2010

  GroomzMcFinehiney:

  I used thebourdoisdivas.com and they came to my house and tried to have their way with me.  Then they hit my mom with a baseball bat and peed on my dog.  It was all very traumatic.  And the pictures were not so good either.

  BAHAHAHAHAA... I think I just peed a little.

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• destination09 member

  

  July 2010

  JustDuckyDancer:

  lisa2008boo:

  Well you didn't say you were mad but you seemed like you were getting frustrated because I didn't agree with you but again have fun and i hope your husband likes the gift =]
  

  No, you assumed I was mad and frustrated. I was just offering another perspective. Perhaps you were the frustrated one?
  

  I'd be frustrated too... if I was a prude

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