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Not what I was expecting to hear this morning.

So when they took out Steve's appendix they sent it away for tests, normal procedure. They found a tumor in his. They ran one test, malignant. The second, benign. So now he has to have some more tests. He has to make an appt with a GI doctor to get a colonoscopy, but he can't have that done until 12 weeks after surgery so it is fully healed, which won't be for another 2 months. Then they want him to see an oncologist to do some tests. I don't know if they anticipate finding anything, but it's all very scary. I don't know what I expect to hear from any of these doctors - good or bad. But I do know I need your T&Ps and some of that good ol' nestie dust you guys are so famous for.

and we're not putting any of this out on facebook, we really aren't telling anyone until we know more, but you guys aren't just anyone and I know you'll help me through this. Whatever it is. 

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  • :::hugs::: I hope the tests all come back ok and you can get answers SOON! It seems having to wait to get the tests and get results is the worst part right now. We're definitely all here for you two, hoping everything comes out alright.
  • ::hugs::

    we're all here for you, lots of T&P's!  I'm hoping that since the tests are different that it wasn't what it seemed. 

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  • Oh no! Keep your head up.  I will keep you guys in my prayers!

  • :Hugs: I"m praying for you and your Dh. That is very scary. If you need need to talk we are here.
  • Lots of T&P sent your way. I will be praying that everything is perfectly fine. Yes, we are here for you. My heart breaks for you as you are going through this hard time.
  • ((hugs)) I'll be praying for you as well! How very scary!
  • Expect good news. Focus on the positive. Its natural to feel a little scared but stay positive and have him do the same. That is the only thing that will help. You will both be in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Left Hug  You guys will be in my prayers, Carrie.  How scary.  Stay strong for him and keep a positive mind.  It's all in Gods hands now.  I hope they find absolutely nothing on the next test and all of this is for precaution.
  • ::deep breaths:: ::deep breaths:: 

    The one test was benign! That's a really, really good thing! Let's focus on that!

    Please Carrie, resist the urge to do internet research! That will only make you feel worse. Trust me.  Find trusted doctors and listen to what they tell you.

    You have all my prayers coming your way.

     

  • :::MORE HUGS::: Sending you lots of love and prayers your way. Be strong Carrie, and keep your head up. Just think positive thoughts. ;-)
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  • Definitely not what most people think about when it comes to appendicitis, but I'm glad they ran tests and are aware of any potential problems.  I know the waiting game will be hard, especially with cancer on the table, but I'm sure it'll all work out.  Keeping you both in my T&Ps and sending lots of cancer ass kicking dust just to be safe.
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    ::deep breaths:: ::deep breaths:: 

    The one test was benign! That's a really, really good thing! Let's focus on that!

    Please Carrie, resist the urge to do internet research! That will only make you feel worse. Trust me.  Find trusted doctors and listen to what they tell you.

    You have all my prayers coming your way.

     

    I am trying to stay positive and focus on that benign test. Because it is a good sign, and the doctor seemed to focus on that more than anything. And she said the other tests were just for precaution. And she didn't really say what she thought it could be, but she's just our primary care physician so I don't think she wanted to give us more than she knew for sure. Which I'm ok with. I like to just know facts. I'm not feeling any urges at this point to google because I really don't know what it could be, even though the obvious conclusion is cancer. My aunt had colon cancer so I know some about it and the treatment as it applied to her so I'm not feeling any needs to research it.

     

  • I'm sending you lots of T&P's. I really hope everything is okay. Keep us updated and let us know if you need anything!

  • I'm sorry, Carrie.  Hoping that it's all precautionary and that everything is just fine!  I'll keep you guys in my thoughts.
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  • oh goodness. Absolutely here for you! Keep your head up. I know its alot easier said then done, but try not to worry toooo much or you'll make yourself sick and crazy. Just think of that benign result. Make sure to keep us all updated when the tests get done!! Healthy dust his way!!
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  • Holy cow, Carrie!  I wasn't excpecting to read that!

    My thoughts and prayers will definitely be with you and Steve.  2 months sounds like forever when you have this hanging over your head not knowing if it's malingnant or begnign.  At least you know it's there and not still inside Steve.

    We are always here for you. 

    And I have had a colonoscopy before. The drink stuff the day before is the worst part. ;)

    HUGS TO YOU!!!!!!

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  • ::hugs:: Sending T&Ps your way! I hope the test results came back quickly and favorably.
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  • oh man! I am so sorry to hear that but hopefully it will be nothing. I wonder why one was benign and one malignant....weird. Keep us updated dear!
  • Good thoughts headed your way! I agree with Gerrie: resist the googling. I didnt and i called my mom in a frantic chaotic panic one afternoon because of it. It was a very bad thing that just stressed me out And scared her sh!tless more than it was worth. And of course, the things i read that panicked me were nothing even close to my issues. The drs will not lie or sugar coat, so if she was positive on the benign test, then focus on that as being really positive. I will say a prayer that all turns out like we want it to :)
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    ::hugs::  I will be praying for both of you, and I hope that everything turns out fine! 
  • Definitely wasn't expecting to read this! I am so sorry honey, you guys will definitely be in my prayers.

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