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Is it weird that I love oral..?
I mean I like giving it but I don't like recieving it. Any of you girls like it to or is it not common? Just wondering my DH thinks Im weird because of that but he sure does enjoy it..lol He will try sometimes go down on me but I feel weird so I tell him not too. I think he just wants to cause I do it to him. Anyway sometimes I think it might not be normal for a woman to like it but idk what are your thoughts?
Re: Is it weird that I love oral..?
Don't worry, I'm working on it.
Get it on!
That's true, if he were to blow air inside of you, it could cause a problem for the baby, but why would he? Is he trying to inflate you? Unless he has an active herpes infection, oral should be perfectly safe.
Was he the one who told you that it's unsafe to receive oral during pregnancy? Because it sounds to me like he's just trying to get out of doing it.
I need my wife to see this...I really want to do this for her but she has some kind of a block against it and has NO interest. I think its kind of sexy but I've never been allowed to do it for her. The one time she let me do it a little she freaked and we finished with sex. Nine months later we had a crying baby in our arms! haha
As someone else posted, its a vulnerable position to be in and it makes a woman feel self conscious. These might not be your wife's specific issues, but hopefully she can get past them and open herself up (haha, no pun intended) to how amazing you could make her feel. Closing her eyes and trying to relax might help. Also, ease it into it. Make out for a few minutes, kiss her chest, kiss her inner thighs...might help her relax and get more comfortable before you start. Good luck and congrats on the baby!
Well, is there a reason why you don't like it? Because I love giving oral and recieving it. AND, believe it or not, you man gets more turned on by the fact that you are getting turned on. So if you don't like it because you feel like it is a chore for your husband, it's not. I read this book "Sheet Music" and it talks about how most men love giving oral to their spouse because they love the fact that their wife is getting off. Think about it. Isn't that so awesome!!??
I hate recieving too! It isn't that I'm self concious about it... it just doesn't feel all that good. I mean, its pleasant, but instead of getting me off, it just kind of numbs me... and afterwords there is no way I'll *** from any other sort of stimulation.
I used to think that I was a freak... but I've thought about it a lot over the years. I don't really like direct stimulation. My body responds better to indirect (ie, grinding rather than penetration?).
I don't think we're freaks... its just that everyone is different.