Sex & Romance
greengirl09
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Sex increase post-baby?
I'm just curious....any couples out there ever experience increased sex after having a child? I know there are plenty of people who see a decrease, but I just wondered if there are any lucky ladies out there enjoying the opposite effect?
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Re: Sex increase post-baby?
My sex drive increased and we have sex more often now but not daily like other people here. We are still too tired some nights. :-)
However, the reason may make us a rare case, maybe not. Long story short, I spent years suffering from VERY painful sex and therefore, I avoided it. Visits to Dr's who said there was nothing wrong with me, extra lube, wine , etc., did not help. I am pretty sure I had vaginismus and unfortunately was not aggressive enough in trying to get help. I never had a problem reaching "O" once we got past the initial step. Anyway, I noticed that sex was not that painful once we began having sex after LO#1, and it got even better after LO2. I had c-sections but maybe I just finally learned to relax. Whatever happened was a nice change. So DH and I are now enjoying the sex we should have had all along.
This is one of the best side effects to having a baby I have EVER read.