Soo mad at H!

sw_wedding · July 2010

My Birthday was last week and h did not buy me anything. All he said was that he ordered it and there was a delay in the shipment. During the week he tells me he wants to go to a lounge on Friday and made me take "going out" clothes to work with me. After work I didn't feel like going out and told him we should just go home..He insisted on going to the lounge, so i decided not to change my clothes or put any make-up on. We get to the lounge and turns out it was a surprise bday party for me.. and the guest my mom, dad, brother and moms BF. I was already upset and got even more upset when only 5 more ppl showed up and he told me he spent $800 for the "party".

My reason for being upset.... he spent $800 for 4 small bottles of vodka, 10 balloons and a small cake!!

sorry for the vent..

mrs riva · July 2010

i don't mean to be a b*tch, but at least he threw you a surprise party. 5 people or not, he had to have done some planning, which is a hell of a lot better than one-click shopping on amazon...

zora51 · July 2010

Geez, I woulda been thrilled if H planned a surprise party for me!! He's not so good at planning that type of thing, so I woulda been shocked and delighted! And since when do people ask (or tell) how much they spent on someone's party?? You shouldn't ask, and he shouldn't tell! Maybe that's just my opinion though. It's like asking how much someone spent on a gift. Just be thankful he thought of you and happy those that love you showed up!

sw_wedding · July 2010

Z reason I know is cause I had to pay the bill at the end of the night!

lca315girl · July 2010

sw_wedding:
Z reason I know is cause I had to pay the bill at the end of the night!

Let me see if I have this right. Your H threw you a surprise birthday party and yet you had to pay the tab at the lounge at the end of the night. Is that correct?

MissySue20 · July 2010

I would be happy as hell if H threw me a surprise party. Yeah, the tab might have been a little much, but I think the thought is what counts.

zora51 · July 2010

lca315girl:
sw_wedding:
Z reason I know is cause I had to pay the bill at the end of the night!
Let me see if I have this right. Your H threw you a surprise birthday party and yet you had to pay the tab at the lounge at the end of the night. Is that correct?

Umm.... yeah, I wanna see if lca has that right! Cuz if THAT'S the case, then THAT'S what you should be venting about, girl!!!! No one is sposed to pay for their own dammn party!!!

sw_wedding · August 2010

Thats what I was venting about the cash... It came out the wrong way.. Thanks ladies

lca315girl · August 2010

I got ya now. Yeah, I'd be pissed if I had to pay nearly a grand for my party that was planned by someone else.

zora51 · August 2010

sw_wedding:
Thats what I was venting about the cash... It came out the wrong way.. Thanks ladies

I'm really curious how this came about? Bill came due, and what, you just volunteered for it? There'd be no WAY I'd pull out my wallet at my own party! What the helll was your H doing at this time?!? Did you say something to him? Has he apologized?

sw_wedding · August 2010

Z He came to me and asked me for my credit card because " it went way over and I don't have enough" He apologized yesterday saying "things didn't come out the way I planned"

jujubee455 · August 2010

Wow... thats crazy. What if you didn't have it??

brookev11 · August 2010

Wow...I would be pissed too.

zora51 · August 2010

sw_wedding:
Z He came to me and asked me for my credit card because " it went way over and I don't have enough" He apologized yesterday saying "things didn't come out the way I planned"

Girl, I would've been HEATED!!! "things didn't come out the way he planned" is an understatement! I can definitely [now] see why you're upset and I would be too! He honestly should've planned better! Sorry you're special day turned sour due to his lack of planning ahead! And I hope he learned his lesson. Don't let him off with an "it's okay hunny" cuz it's NOT!!!

kthame · August 2010

I'm so sorry that happened. Granted his intentions were good....but WOW...$800 for liquor? Well, try not to let it ruin the rest of your week. I'd be really upset as well.

Soo mad at H!

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