Toledo Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
I've been on such an emotional roller coaster lately
My emotions are so over the place lately its horrible. I'm fine one minute and the next I'm bursting into tears. I thought the day and a half away from Toledo would help, but it just made it worse. I don't think it helped that J was texting me the whole time either. I know I kinda started it when I randomly called him Sat am when I was lost and needed directions, but I didn't know who else could help me and since he drives around all day for work I knew he could. He's been so hot and cold with things lately that it has stressed me out so much. On top of him, they gave my grandma about 6 months to live, they gave my stepdad 90 days in jail, I'm stressed about money and how I'm gonna afford to fix my car and work doesn't know what my position will be when school starts in a few weeks. I'm so over so many things. I need a second job, but if I get my old hrs back, which I would LOVE and ask for about once a week, then it will be hard cause really who's gonna hire me for like 1 day a week. I put a TON of stuff on craigslist and the only thing that has sold is my wedding and engagement ring, which will take care of my car repair and pay for some of the bills J refuses to pay even though they were ours. I have a friend who said he would be there whenever I need to talk, but lately when I do, he's to busy or never responds to my texts. I'm tired of people being so hot and cold with me and I'm tired of this emotional roller coaster. I just want off! Sorry but I needed a small vent.
Re: I've been on such an emotional roller coaster lately
I hear you. Divorce is one of the hardest things to go through...well that on top of the relationship not working out that got you there in the first place. I've been feeling the same way lately too, highs and lows.
I keep saying to myself..this too shall pass and one day things will work itself out.
I have really looked at my life and at the people that have been there or not been for me this past year. I'm so tired of putting effort into relationships and not getting anything back or what I need at this low point in my life. It sounds selfish but I just don't have time for people who don't have time for me, ya know? I can only be stretched so thin before breaking.
Stay strong, one day you will be out of this mess
(((hugs)))
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"Cheese!"
STOP CALLING HIM! I dont care what it is for.
If you need directions or get lost, call me. I carry my TomTom with me at all times and I am pretty good with directions and know just about every part of town.
I am sorry you are going thru a rought patch, but just like LM said, this too shall pass. And just remember, God wouldn't bring you to it, if you couldn't get thru it. (((HUGS)))
I am with Angi, you cannot call him anymore. It just brings up old feelings and that isn't good when you are trying to move on.
Break ups are very difficult whether it is boyfriend or a husband. You will eventually get through it even though it seems like you won't. One day you will look back and laugh.
Stay strong!