So I have been married for almost two months and something little I noticed is the that things that used to not brother me do now.
I mean my DH has a habit of leaving little clusters of "stuff" around the house. Things like a little stack of tools on the kitchen island for a week. Well this never used to brother and its does now. I mean it doesn't get my blood boiling or cause me to say or doing anything naggy or snarky I guess I just notice them more now. So I was thinking about this and wondering wtf, why does this brother me now. Aha ... its because I realize I married to those little clusters of crap now.
I thought this was interesting and how marriage can change little things like that.
Do you have any similiar experiences about this?
Re: Marriage Observation
Thats a good point. I am alot more focused on taking care of our house now as before I was so busy with renovations and then wedding/honeymoon planning. We are both pretty easy going so there is not much the other does that gets on our nerves.
I just thought this change was interesting. I have to say though we are both alot more attentive to one another needs/wants now. I am sure thats called the honeymoon stage though ......
I know this isn't quite the same, because DH and I just moved in together, but I feel the same way. I used to spend a lot of time at his place before we got married (almost every weekend for 10 years), and hardly noticed the things that really annoy me now.
I chalk it all up to not having to live with it every day of my life, like I do now. We are learning to live with each other though, and it is getting easier.
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