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Remember the Kids Left in Cars Article?

The haunting one that I wish I never read...

I gave my 20 yr. old nanny a car seat today so that she drive my kid around from time to time. 

We had a very stern talk this morning about never, ever leaving him alone in the car.  But she's 20.  And when I said "So, even if you're getting gas at the gas station, you may not leave him in the car while you run inside to pay." And she was like "Oh - really - ok - not even then..."

 Anyway - I'm thinking about giving her a copy of the article.  What do you think?  Too much??

Re: Remember the Kids Left in Cars Article?

  • I honestly think I'd be a little nervous allowing someone that didn't know they couldn't leave a baby in a car to drive my kid around. 
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  • Not at all. Maybe extrere, but it's your child. I'd probably ask her to read it.
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  • I would preface it with "I'm not trying to be bossy or a biotch for no good reason, but if you think I'm crazy, here's the article I read that made me worry about it.  I'm just explaining my paranoia so you don't think I'm just making up weird rules to make your life harder.  And a lot of very smart people have made this mistaks, so this isn't a judgment about you."
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    "As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse
  • something tells me you are going to end up shooting her one day.
  • [Insert inappropriate funny comment here]

    Honestly, I think you should give it to your nanny.  I was a live-in nanny at 20 and I think that if I would have read something like that it would have scared me shiitless enough to never do something like that. 

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    "Once I got a bath bomb that, once exploded, filled the tub with confetti. Little sharp metallic pieces of confetti. The product description said nothing about confetti. Oh look, there's a tiny, sharp metallic blue star stabbing me in the labia. HOW RELAXING. " - NoisyPenguin
  • Confession, even with this knowledge, I will probably still leave my kid in the car with the doors open to run inside and pay at the gas station.
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    "As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse
  • At my parent's cottage, there is a lady with a nearby cottage.  Next door to said lady there was a fancy new proper lakehouse being constructed.  Complete with plenty of construction workers from south of the border.  We used to watch said lady try to shoot them with a paint ball gun.  She must have thought they were intruders.  Or nannies.

  • who still goes IN to pay for gas??

    but really.  I think Fent's approach is good, "look, this article scared me and I wanted to share it with you since you will be driving LO around in your car . . . "

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  • image_Fenton:
    Confession, even with this knowledge, I will probably still leave my kid in the car with the doors open to run inside and pay at the gas station.

    dude

  • image_Fenton:
    Confession, even with this knowledge, I will probably still leave my kid in the car with the doors open to run inside and pay at the gas station.

    dude

  • I would give her the article to read. 

    I was shocked when I found out F left Ian in the car once to run into our neighborhood convenience store to get milk.  He assured me he could see the car at all times, and was gone for less than two minutes, but still.  No bueno.

  • I plan to never read the article so I won't feel guilty about leaving my kid in the car while I go into the mall and shop for a few hours.
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    "That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
  • Cali - at least you'll be protecting the kid from the weirdos who lurk inside malls, waiting to snatch your burrito the second your back is turned. 

  • you can still see your car at all times and get car jacked or something in an instant.  maybe this is one of those things I'll understand later, but I can't fathom leaving my kid in my open car to go in somewhere, and I can't fathom rolling up the windows and locking the car to run in either.  So I guess that leaves me dragging the kids in everywhere.
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  • yeah, it's a PITA, especially if they're sleeping or something, but you have to drag them with you.
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  • imageCaliopeSpidrman:
    I plan to never read the article so I won't feel guilty about leaving my kid in the car while I go into the mall and shop for a few hours.
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  • Dude, if the doors are open and I really am just running in to pay and coming back....I'm sure this is far from the most dangerous situation in life my kid will be in.  I probably won't do this in a busy city area, but the podunk gas station right by my house.  Pffffftt.
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    "As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse
  • imagemashedpotato:
    yeah, it's a PITA, especially if they're sleeping or something, but you have to drag them with you.

    Sometimes I really wish I could just leave him in the car. I don't just run to the store because I need milk now. It's just too much hassle to load him in the car and drag him around the parking lot.  

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  • I would never drag a baby around a parking lot. You're a terrible mother.
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  • imagebuddhagouda:

    imagemashedpotato:
    yeah, it's a PITA, especially if they're sleeping or something, but you have to drag them with you.

    Sometimes I really wish I could just leave him in the car. I don't just run to the store because I need milk now. It's just too much hassle to load him in the car and drag him around the parking lot.  

    well, i still do that but I do it in the evenings when I get out of the house. I drive around with the windows down, the radio blasting and I alternate errands and fun stuff.

     

  • imageChristinS:
    I would never drag a baby around a parking lot. You're a terrible mother.

    He totally asked for it.  

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  • I sort of laughed at the "very stern talking to" part of things.

    I mean anyone I have to have a "very stern talking to" before babysitting would not be babysitting my kid.

     

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  • image_Fenton:
    Confession, even with this knowledge, I will probably still leave my kid in the car with the doors open to run inside and pay at the gas station.

    me too. With the credit/debit card it wouldnt be an issue but for literally 2 seconds within eyesite to drop some cash on the counter and run out? Seems like it wouldnt be terrible.

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