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Talking Dirty
I just wasnt raised that way...
Any helpful hints or vocabulary to use. What do you say?
Your little hands wrapped around my finger and its so quiet in the world tonight
Your little eye lids flutter cause your dreamin so I tuck you in, turn on your favorite night light
To you everything's funny, you've got nothing to regret
I'd give all I have hunny, if you could stay like that
Oh darling dont you ever grow up, dont you ever grow up, just stay this little
Oh darling dont you ever grow up dont you ever grow up, it could stay this simple
I wont let nobody hurt you, wont let no one break your heart, no one will desert you
Just try to never grow up
Re: Talking Dirty
Well, I do not know anyone who was raised to talk dirty...lol
Watch some porn...youll pick it up
This made me giggle.
OP: Just tell him what you want. Whisper something naughty in his ear. It doesn't always have to be in the bedroom, either. Next time y'all are out with friends or at a dinner party, lean into him and whisper that you are wearing sexy new panties or tell him that you want to do something special for him later. Drives them nuts.
Once you get used to naughty little hints, you will feel more and more comfortable and you will be able to talk dirtier and dirtier.
I'd like to meet someone who was raised to talk dirty?
Does the range of your vocabulary not contain...the F word? Any of the slang terms for the penis...the vagina?
Come on girl, you don't need a vocab lesson! A good way to work in to talking dirty is being descriptive with what's happening. And of course, this looks dumb typed out on a message board...I almost can't even type it. "Oh you're pounding me so hard!" You're doing this so good, you're doing that so good, I love it when you..., do you like it when I...
Then once you get in to that, you could replace the words "You, me" with some dirtier slang words..."Your #&)@ is pounding my @#&&$ so hard!"
You might find it not all that difficult to give up your delicate sensibilities once you get going.
I totally agree.. I used to be very timid when it came time for that stuff and boy now it works for us.. talking dirty is great
It does not have to involve dirty words or crude language.
It can just mean sharing some intimate desire or reaction.
You could start with the standard "Oh yeah, fvck me, fvck me harder," and, "ooh, that feels so good."
Then graduate to, "Do you like when I ___ your ___?" or "Do you like ___ing my ___?" with the follow-up "Yeah, you like that?"
(If you study porn, you'll notice there's a lot of repeating essentially the same sentence, just jumbling the order of the words)
A little "It feels so good when you ___ my ___" / "I love it when you ___ my ___"...
Some "I want you to ___ my ___" and "___ my ___ now"...
"I love fvcking/blowing you" / "You/your [peen term of choice) tastes so good"...
Good filler words = harder, faster, deeper, oh yeah, oh god, oh baby, oh fvck, fvck me...
Watch porn... you'll pick up some phrases.
I am working at this as well. So I am no help in the this department except to say, you're not alone.
lol yeah parents normally don't get THAT into teaching their children things like talking dirty.
I just tell H what I'm doing, what I like, what I want him to do, how it feels
Try easy things like: "I love when you..." "when you do that you make me so wet", "I want you to lick me.." " me harder" "I want to feel you ***" "you feel so good inside me"
It's really not that hard and it doesn't even have to be that raunchy if you don't feel it, just start with the easy stuff. Suggest that you guys watch a porn together (or watch on solo) it'll give you some good little suggestions;)
Um you know what he would respond is I told him I was wearing Sexy new panties? He'd ask me how much I spent?
Ha! I guess Mr.prego needs talking dirty tips instead.
Tell him you're not wearing any at all. It is both sexy and economical!
Best if both worlds.