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How sentimental are you?

This made me think the other night when I was getting something from the basement. Our box of wedding cards is on a top shelf; I didn't know what to do w/them. Also our wedding candle - don't know what to do w/it, so it's in a bag in the basement. I think I'm going to get rid of these things, like, what do you do w/it??

I've kept a few things here and there over the years but I'm really not sentimental. Maybe from my mom selling the house I grew up in and she sold lots of my childhood stuff, and moving so much throughout college, I've learned to let go of things.

Do you keep old stuff b/c it reminds you of good memories/people/whatever? Do you dry flowers from bouquets or events? Or anything else equally mushy?
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Re: How sentimental are you?

  • I've kept cards, but like you kinda don't know what to do with them.  I have some pieces in my home that are sentimental to me but if things reach the clutter stage, they're gone.  I only have one plastic bin full of my childhood/college memories.

    I do scrapbook though, and those are very sentimental to me, although I don't keep brochures or tickets in there.

    I don't have any flowers from anything, except for our wedding centerpiece it was a fake topiary in fall colors.

    Here is a tricky one---we have a box downstairs with DH's parents wedding memorabilia... cake topper, monogrammed napkins, matchbooks, etc....they got divorced 8 yrs. ago WTH are we supposed to do with that stuff.  I don't bring it up to DH since it's only one box.  I suppose he'll decide someday what to do.  I just don't know why I need to store 100 extra napkins??

    Also--I also have a 16x20 painting of my mom that was done for her wedding portrait...they divorced when I was 3 and my mom burned her wedding dress and threw it out the bathroom window when I was 13 (don't ask).  It is way too big to hang up around the house and I have no clue what do with it.  She was gorgeous, but it just doesn't feel like the mom I know when I look at it.

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  • I am/can be sentimental.  I think we still have all our wedding cards and the unity candle and a few other odds and ends in storage.  I still have the response cards actually - though I plan to throw those out (although some people wrote little messages on them).  I remember my mom being shocked that I didn't keep my wedding bouquet (there was a time in my life when I would have done so, but these days, I don't keep flowers once they've served their purpose).  I remember I broke one of our champagne toasting flutes from the wedding (someone - not I - put it up in the cupboard halfassed and I bumped it and it shattered) - balled like a baby.
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  • I keep everything but not really because I'm sentimental...  more because I'm a pack rat....  but, I'm not a hoarder or anything.  Only a few choice things are kept for sentimental reasons.  I do have my wedding bouquet, still, and a few dried flowers from DH from years ago.  I just don't think I'm very sentimental because I don't really have a problem throwing away greeting cards, old gifts, etc.
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    I am/can be sentimental.  I think we still have all our wedding cards and the unity candle and a few other odds and ends in storage.  I still have the response cards actually - though I plan to throw those out (although some people wrote little messages on them).  I remember my mom being shocked that I didn't keep my wedding bouquet (there was a time in my life when I would have done so, but these days, I don't keep flowers once they've served their purpose).  I remember I broke one of our champagne toasting flutes from the wedding (someone - not I - put it up in the cupboard halfassed and I bumped it and it shattered) - balled like a baby.


    Okaayy, posted too fast!!
    MIL had champagne glasses screen printed for our wedding as favors, and had 2 engraved for us. (shakes head, whole other story) People took them home of course, and our engraved ones were taken. I really didn't care, but MIL was super upset. We have still have a 12 printed ones but we've never used them, probably never will.
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  • imageBrandySun:
      I remember I broke one of our champagne toasting flutes from the wedding (someone - not I - put it up in the cupboard halfassed and I bumped it and it shattered) - balled like a baby.

    I would've balled too!  I bought ours direct from the Waterford factory in Ireland and hand carried them on the flight all the way home.  I'd be devastated, but Waterford is one thing I am sentimental about.

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  • I am not at all. I hate clutter so I do not save much, I save things here and there though.
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  • all of our wedding stuff is in a box in the spare bedroom closet...all but our cake topper(which is sitting on the coffee table with pics of the wedding).  i'm pretty sentimental, but there comes a time when it's time to purge and get rid of stuff.  

    ** we had napkins from the cake table left over and we use them on a day to day basis since we really only needed one for the keepsake box **

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  • I will never part with our caketopper!  I will part with everything else from the wedding before I even consider parting with that!
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  • Not very much. I do have one small box from our wedding w/ our program, unity candle, and 1 of each thing, like our box that had our favors etc. My main problem is I never want to part with things because I think I could sell it in a garage sale. My dh keeps asking when the sale is. I am more into pictures then the items, I do like to scrap book :)
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  • imageBrandySun:
    I will never part with our caketopper!  I will part with everything else from the wedding before I even consider parting with that!

    Didn't you have that custom made?

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  • I am sentimental.  I have things that if you ask about them I will tear up telling you about.  I have a pair of winnie-the-pooh socks that my grandma bought when I was in college (graduated 1998).  I dont keep like everything jsut certain things... I do have the game tickets and tour tickets from our trip to Dallas last year but not the airline printouts.
  • Umm - I'm usually WAAAY to sentimental about things.  But - I'm getting better at letting some things go.  I remember that I used to have to do lists and time lines for the wedding and I had a hard time throwing those away.  I finally realized how kooky I was being by keeping them.  Our unity candle - we had purchased from Linens n things after Christmas and it's just a regular white candle with sparkley stuff on it.  We've burnt it here and there usually around Christmas because I made a little decoration out of it.  So, I've gotten much better about getting rid of wedding stuff.  I think I still have our wedding cards somewhere though.  It depends how much room we have and what I feel like. 
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    imageBrandySun:
    I will never part with our caketopper!  I will part with everything else from the wedding before I even consider parting with that!

    Didn't you have that custom made?

    Yep - I insisted on having bobbleheads and they had to be custom made (and they were awesome)!

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  • I scrapbooked most of our wedding stuff.  I have a storage tote of just things from HS that i'm not ready to part with and then a small storage container with grade school things.  I have a few things from the wedding, but I will most likely get rid of them, except the glasses we used for our toast since they were the ones that my parents used at their wedding.  I think when we sold our house and moved into the one we were renting, I got rid of all our wedding cards, I just didn't see any use in keeping them anymore, then again right now I don't want to keep anything from J, but I am because I know I will one day regret throwing that stuff out.  I did have a box of boyfriends, which was pretty much notes and conversations with old boyfriends, that J did throw out before we bought our house and when I went looking for it back in Feb I was upset that he did that.  There was more than just notes in there.  I had pictures of my niece Emma from when she was a baby and pictures of these girls I use to babysit who were like my little sisters.
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