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so annoyed

Ugh I cannot stand my SIL. She is a total b. to me and DH and then turns around and pretends that she is sooo close to us in front of other people. She is so fake and she is such a strain on DH's parents (emotionally and financially). And everytime we go visit his family, she causes some fight between her, him, and his parents. Plus she is a total liar and drama queen. Basically, I avoid her at all cost. Just now I was on fb and she had written on DH's wall "so me and (her boyfriend) are coming to see you labor day weekend. We get into Charlotte at___ and we are living Monday at ___." WHAT!!! She has not mentioned this to me or DH at all (and I know she hasn't said anything to DH because he knows my mom is coming visit us that weekend.) We have NO SPACE for guests. My mom said she didn't care about sleeping on the couch but I can't fit three guests, where are they going to sleep. Plus I haven't seen my mom in 5 months and don't know when I will get to see her next, I don't want other people ruining an already short visit. Also, Charlotte is 2 hours away from us we cannot go pick her up and bring her back - we work! I am not letting this happen (even though it will cause a huge fight). I just cannot beileve someone would have the nerve to make flight arrangements and plans to stay with someone WITHOUT ASKING! What if we were going out of town? She is an idiot. Ok vent over. Thanks for listening.

Re: so annoyed

  • Wow - that is rude.  I guess if it was me personally, I'd have DH tell her straight up that since she didn't give you fair warning that she was planning a trip to visit that you've made arrangements to host other guests for the weekend and can't possibly add any additional folks or take time away from said guests to show them around.  Perhaps it will be a wakeup call to her to not assume that the world revolves around her.  Stick out tongue 
  • imagewittyschaffy:
    Wow - that is rude.  I guess if it was me personally, I'd have DH tell her straight up that since she didn't give you fair warning that she was planning a trip to visit that you've made arrangements to host other guests for the weekend and can't possibly add any additional folks or take time away from said guests to show them around.  Perhaps it will be a wakeup call to her to not assume that the world revolves around her.  Stick out tongue 

     

    YesYes 

    This answer gets two thumbs up! 

  • imagewittyschaffy:
    Wow - that is rude.  I guess if it was me personally, I'd have DH tell her straight up that since she didn't give you fair warning that she was planning a trip to visit that you've made arrangements to host other guests for the weekend and can't possibly add any additional folks or take time away from said guests to show them around.  Perhaps it will be a wakeup call to her to not assume that the world revolves around her.  Stick out tongue 

    This, exactly. She needs to get a freaking clue.

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  • imagewittyschaffy:
    Wow - that is rude.  I guess if it was me personally, I'd have DH tell her straight up that since she didn't give you fair warning that she was planning a trip to visit that you've made arrangements to host other guests for the weekend and can't possibly add any additional folks or take time away from said guests to show them around.  Perhaps it will be a wakeup call to her to not assume that the world revolves around her.  Stick out tongue 

    Wow, witty, that response is perfect. 

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