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need to vent....kinda long, sorry
so I told you guys about what happened on the wedding day with H's sis... how she tried to ruin it by making up lies and how her daughters are both awful B*t*h*s... if you dont remember, long story short is that she started drama, lied to her mom which made her mom mad at me and my mother, I told her to get out of the brides room because I WAS NOT going to be upset on my wedding day and she decided she was just going to leave.. well we haven't spoken to her since wedding day.. she is dead to us, she has been causing problems in their family WAY before I came along and she WILL NOT cause problems with my and H and our kids (when we have them..)..
well, of course H's parents are upset by all this and we've tried talking to them a couple of times. The first time we went to talk to them they blamed us for EVERYTHING that happened. We have only seen them 2 or 3 times since then.. Now I know that most of the time there are 2 sides to every story, and I would totally admit if I had done something wrong in all of this, but I truthfully dont feel like we did anything wrong! We have decided to act like his sister and her girls dont exist anymore, and that has worked so far.. until....
we had a party last weekend and H's BF (who was also in our wedding) was there. well he tells us that the day before he was at Logans (where one of H's nieces works) and she came up to his and said "so have you seen the bastard lately??" talking about my H.. SERIOUSLY! You are 17 and you're going to walk up to your uncles BF and ask that, like he is not going to say something to us.... so we tell H's parents because we want them to know that we weren't the ones doing all this sh*t and his mom just says well I'll tell her not to do it again... my grandmother would have slapped my face!
THEN... monday morning we get a call from a neighbor at H's old house (which we have worked out a**es off trying to get ready to sell) that there is water running on the front porch. H leaves work to find that the house has been rolled, silly stringed, and the water hose has been running all night long. We found a reciept from walmart with his nieces name on it, also saw on her FB that she wrote "i love doing illegal things".. told his parents about it and they STILL sided with them. So now, H has told his parents to never call us agian...
This is all so upsetting to me. My parents (who we were SUPER close with) moved to Michigan right after the wedding and the rest of my family lives in Florida.. so here we are without any family around, I sit at home all day because I still haven't found a teaching job, and H is working A TON of overtime (to make up for me not having a job..). I am just so blah lately with all that has happened.. I really need a pick me up...
Sorry this was so long, just needed to get it out of my system.
Thanks for reading 
Re: need to vent....kinda long, sorry
Wow, that is crazy!! Are you guys going to press charges for the house damages? Why is his mom siding with them through all this obvious drama? What is wrong with them?!
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. That is utter craziness. Hopefully they'll calm down soon and get over this middle school name-calling and bullying. Seriously, grow up people!
My goodness. I'm sorry you have to deal with all those family issues. It's too bad everyone seems to be siding with her. It's hard to not have family around you feel close to.
Vibes for you.
Andplusalso, I agree about pressing charges if it's not too late. She needs to be taught a lesson for sure.
oh we totally are pressing charges... we called the cops that day and filed a report.. she needs to get her butt busted a few times then maybe she will stop being this way!
And I have no idea why they are taking his sister's side... wait, yes I do.. becasue she has BRAINWASHED them... they LOVED me when H and I started dating... the first time they met me they told him to marry me and his dad used to call me his baby girl.. well his stupid jealous sister has made them hate me, so thats probably why they side with her..
get this, when we first made out wedding website I had all the BP on there.. she was on there as a BM and her girls were honorary.. well we are at H's parents one day and his mom flat out asks me why they are not on the website.. I said they are, and she says I have the print out right here... His sister had printed the website, told his mom none of them were on there and she just believed her.. .I turned the page and pointed to their pictures AND names... they were there right in front of her face.. his sister is a LUNATIC!
I'm sorry! That sounds nuts. What a pain in the a** to have to deal with.
I'm glad you're pressing charges and I am sending TONS of vibes your way for everything to work out!