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When I was 20 I got engaged. We broke up at 18 months after that. I'm not going to lie...he was my first love and I think I'll always have a fondness in my heart for him. He's a mormon though and because I'm not his family talked him out of it. I just got invited to his wedding...via facebook. I knew he was getting married, but he hasn't ever been super nice to me since we split...(like 4 years ago)...so I was surprised to see it...I checked, but he didn't invite all his facebook friends so he deliberately invited me. Just seemed odd to me and made me reminisce about the past even though I love my husband and wouldn't trade him for the world. Lately I've been stuck on the would of, could of, should of beens.....
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I think a facebook wedding invitation is klassy no matter what!
Ditto what the PP said... Facebook wedding invite is not something I would be sending out.
I understand what you're saying about the sentimental aspects of your first love getting married. Same thing happened with me... then when I started dating DH, first love was trying to talk me out of it because he didn't think we were a "good fit." It was sort of difficult to get away from first love because he was the brother of one of my close friends... and he lived on the other side of the street (about a 2 minute walk). When I got married, his sister was a bridesmaid and, even though I didn't invite him because it WOULD have been weird, I felt weird without him there. We had remained pretty close friends after the break up (we were friends for a good 4 years before dating). Anywho... I haven't talked to him in a while. Definitely no regrets here. Are you and your DH ok? Sometimes I get the "would of, could of, should of's" when I'm annoyed with DH to the point of questioning my motives in life lol.
Yeah we're fine. Lately I've been thinking a lot about college and how I won't get to do the college thing again haha. I think I'm having a midlife crisis @ 25.