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So i used to like sex.....

I used to love sex and then when I was pregnant I tried to do it and it felt as if I was loosing my virginity on fire so I stopped. My son is now almost 8 monthes old and I think weve had sex maybe four to fives times and I remember that feeling so when he asks for sex I change the subject... Is there something wrong with me?

Re: So i used to like sex.....

  • Sounds like that experience caused you to develop a hangup... you need to work to get over it. In the times that you've had sex since having your son, has it hurt/burned? Are you anticipating it will and that's causing problems?

    Maybe a visit to your doc to confirm there's nothing physically wrong will comfort you.

  • You know, I was just like that (loving sex) and then got pregnant and something happened as it does take a LONG time for me to get into the "mood" now. Kayeann is 2 1/2 years old. My Dr. says here is nothing wrong but I still have issues with getting in the mood. It is starting to get better for me but that is only the last few weeks. I know this doesn't give you any actual advise (other than going to your Dr.) but at least you will know you are not alone. Good luck!
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