April 2008 Weddings
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Received the Appeal Decision
I lost. The Judge said by refusing to work with my supervisor I voluntarily left my job. She basically ignored the fact that he refused to work with me too and that I asked for alternate assignments. I'm pretty disappointed because I feel like the judge didn't even look at all the evidence I presented and I just wasted my time. It is what it is though. I'll let Andrew read the decision over when he gets home tomorrow and let him decide if I should appeal it. I just don't know if I have a valid reason for an appeal and want this to be over and done with. Honestly, I think I'm more upset that the employer got away with their behavior and basically had it validated by a Judge. I'm sure they are gloating away right now. Thanks for all your support over the past few months. It's been such a huge relief to be able to lean on you guys.
Re: Received the Appeal Decision
Blech. I can't believe that, didn't you say the judge caught them in some lies?
On another note, though, I missed your post before, but congrats on finding out you're having a girl!
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NO! I'm sorry you lost. That's terrible. Especially after they way they treated you. I really, really, really wanted to be able to gloat about how they were wrong and you were right. Stupid judge.
But at least you have little Natalie to look forward too and concentrate on
Ugh...I'm so sorry Alicia!! :::HUGSSSS:::
But let's look on the brightside of things....you would be in HEEEEEEELLL if you were still working there. You are better off not hating a job and working under a crappy boss. You have all the time in the world to focus on you and the family. Natalie is the luckiest baby to have you as her mama! Love the baby letters that you just made!!! xxoo
Thanks ladies! I'm bummed out and the judge even said in her decision that it was likely that I was going to be fired, but they hadn't actually done so and I esentially jumped the gun. Andrew wants me to appeal and we got in an argument over it last night. I just want this nightmare to be over. As my mom said, the worst part is that the company is sitting there gloating and frankly, I don't want to appeal it, lose and have them think they were doubly right. It's just not worth it. The judge made a legally sound decision and I don't see any fault in her reasoning, thus a reason for an appeal.
I feel good being able to just focus on being a mommy and not having to look for a job. Unemployment would have been great, but we've made it this long without any income from me, so we will continue to make it. Thanks again for all the support.
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