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Orgasm
Just curious. I've seen a lot of people talk about climaxing with their partner, or at the same time as their partner. That shocks me.
Having an O with my H is rare, and I've only ever been able to when I'm on top and in control. Even if the other positions feel great, i never come anywhere close.
Do a lot of you have O's on a regular basis? and are you able to during Missionary?
Re: Orgasm
Yes and yes. It's a very rare occasion if I don't O during sex.
Are you more prone to G spot or Clit orgasms? If you prefer clit orgasms then any position where you can get good access to that should be good.
I love G spot much better. I have those usually in doggie and in the criss cross position (criss cross your legs on his shoulders) or you could criss cross on your side too.
I would recommend getting a book of positions and just have fun trying different things.
As for missionary, try putting a pillow under your butt to elevate you. Try anything where he is grinding on your clit during missionary.
This. If you're playing the "am I normal" game, yes, you are normal.
Personally, I orgasm during most of our sex sessions because my BF sees to it that I do. He likes to feel me climax on him. We usually pull out my vibrator in the middle of things and he uses it on me while I'm on top. He's a tougher nut to crack, which doesn't bother him, he still enjoys himself thoroughly... it's just a bit more of an yahtzee when he ejaculates.
I have a difficult time orgasming during penetration; it happens once in a great while when the planets are aligned just so. But my bf has the most amazing fingers ever, and always gives me a few g-spot orgasms before and after intercourse. I prefer them after, because I'm more warmed up after the in-and-out.
I think I've only orgasmed with him inside of me twice, and it wasn't while he was coming.
darling, please purchase a vibrator (like $10). I was totally freaked out about buying one and hadn't O'd until this past year, now I can't get enough...
Yes, I have an orgasm every time. Missionary works for me, but we're all different.
I highly recommend a bullet-style vibrator on the clitoris during sex. Clitoral orgasm and g-spot orgasm at the same time = best thing ever.
I was 24 the first time I O'd. and I'd had a couple boyfriends and several vibrators before that that never did the trick.
for me, the first time, it was during phone sex, with a very patient guy, he really really wanted me to ***--i really think your mind set has a lot to do with it.
I have *** with my husband a couple of times, when we do it doggy style or when I am on top is when it is more likely to happen, but I do have to be more warmed up for it. I orgasm a lot more regularly when I masturbate, because I tend to spend more time focusing on it. A lot of the sex I have with my hubby tends to be rushed, in the morning before work, so we don't have adequate time to get me all revved up before hand, if we did, I think I would O a lot more...
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This conversation is rather comforting. Glad I'm not abnormal!
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Um, every time, but DH is shall we say blessed.
It wasn't that way for me with any other men.
This. H has really good self control and can read me really well, so he knows when I'm about to and starts moving to get himself off at the same time. It works out really well, because I'm usually wore out and we just collapse at the same time, ha ha.
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Amen to that!
I love it!
I orgasm with DH every time, multiple times. But it took me until I was in my 30's to get that way. I don't know if it's DH, his "abilities", my age, or me realizing what I needed to get off. And you know what? It doesn't matter. Figure out what works for you and DO IT. If you are getting off during sex, that probably makes you want more, and most DH's would love that. If what works for me doesn't work for you, so what--I'm not there, I'm here, getting off with my H!
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