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sex on the beach anyone?

my soon to be husband and I will be honeymooning at a beach resort, it will be in the beginning of october and should be a slower time of year for tourists...he has brought up having sex on the beach I would love to...but have heard a lot of stories that have made me a little put off, any stories and suggestions that would help would be great!

Re: sex on the beach anyone?

  • Sounds fun but I am not will to risk getting sand in my lady parts. : /
  • I personally haven't tried it, but a friend of mine did. She said she got sand in places she didn't think she could get sand. I think it would be kinda hot to give it a try sometime though.
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  • Eh I personally didn't enjoy it.  After a while the sand just rubs things the wrong way. 
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  • Sand in my vag doesn't sound all that romantic to me!  But whatever floats your boat!
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  • My H and I did it once.  We were on a giant, think blanket and we made sure no sand got on it.  We also had a blanket on top because it was February.  Anyway, it was great for us, but sans blanket I would not have gone for it.  I have also heard some horror stories about sand getting in every nook and cranny.
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  • I would not recommend it.  Very, very painful if you get sand in your vag, which I did.  Not romantic at all.  Also, it could put you out of commission for the rest of your honeymoon.
  • Its great fun!! But do it first thing (before getting in the water or sand) and put down a big blanket. You can get in the water to rinse any sand off but think about either where will you put the used condom or will you then need to clean up the mess from your blanket or bikini bottoms?

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  • Logistically, it seems kinda iffy to me.  Sand in places nobody wants sand, condom disposal, clean up... I would be cautious about it, is all.
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  • I will admit I have always wanted to do it in public, espeically on a beach (where I feel most at home).  That being said, there are to many variables for me ever go through with it.  Sand already gets most places I don't want it to when I head to the beach...there is one particular place I KNOW I DON"T WANT IT TO GO...and knowing my luck, it would go there, careful or not. 

    If you decide to go for it, I would do as pp said and put a blanket on top, as well as on bottom, just to keep sand from blowing around in unwanted areas.  Have a fun honeymoon!

  • Do it in the ocean in daylight instead, it is a lot less painful.
  • I think sex on the beach sounds like fun and sexy, but I would be worried about sand getting in places where it shouldn't.
  • ouch sounds painful. 
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  • Blankets. Lots of blankets, be organized about it lol. And they're right, don't go in the water first. The sand isn't worth it but if you put down a blanket and keep it clean and dry before you lay on it, it's ok.

     

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  • It's pretty awesome.  Bring a towel/blanket to lay on, though. 
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  • Unless you get UTIs after having sex in water...like a lot of women do.  
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  • Bring a blanket.  Do not get down and dirty in the sand.  It will hurt like hell later.  Sand does not belong in those places, trust me. 
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  • I think it does sound sexy and you should probably try it at least once. ;) My suggestion, though: BRING A BLANKET. It might help with keeping sand out of very personal places.
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  • Sand in bad places!
  • My first time was on a beach. So incredibly painful. I'd recommend that you don't have actual intercourse on the beach, or in the water. On the beach, sand gets in some very uncomfortable places, and sex in the water washes away your natural lubrication.

    If you must do something on the beach, maybe some oral or manual stimulation, then go back to your hotel room and finish things there. Try on the room balcony if you have one, or if you really want to do it somewhere there is a higher risk of being seen, try the elevator or staircase, but not if your room is on a lower floor!

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  • I did it at night when we thought nobody was around.  We just threw a big towel down and went at it.  Turns out someone was watching, which we realized as we were finishing up. Oh well, it was fun and no sand where it didn't belong for me.
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  • DH and I did on our honeymoon, but we were dropped off on a secluded beach by boat and didn't get picked up for a few hours so we took advantage of having our own private island and beach to ourselves.

    I would just be careful of maybe getting caught. I know that's part of the thrill, but the thrill will be long over if you get caught and even worse get in trouble with the resort. 

  • DH and I used to do it on the beach (when we lived near the beach) late at night when no one was around. We'd grab a blanket or towel and usually it was one position to eliminate the possibility of sand in "places" and in the dunes so it wasn't so obvious to passersby. Enjoy - it's a beautiful place and a beautiful act ;)
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  • We camped on the beach and with all the sand on our legs and what not, it was uncomfortable. We did however take it into the water one morning and it was fantastic.
  • My hubby and I live a block from the beach and aren't big fans. Even if you do it on a blanket you still have to worry about sand fleas and other bugs interrupting you. Windy nights blow sand everywhere and still nights are the worst for bugs. Also, if you try it in the water be careful. The saltwater could really burn and if you tear it could lead to a bacterial infection from the goodies living in the water column. Don't let this stop you from trying it out though! Where you are going conditions might be perfect!!
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  • We did it on vacation once and it was really fun! We had a towel and he was on bottom so we didnt really get too sandy.
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  • I wanted to on our honeymoon, but even late at night there were people walking the beach near the resort. 

     I would not recommend having sex in the water.  You can actually force the water into your uterus with the thrusting motion.  bad news bears.

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