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Re: Holy WTF???

  • Indifferent

    i was super confused why you were WTF-ing a lady with chronic fatigue syndrome....until i kept scrolling. omg.

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    Is this safe for work???

    Yes, no pics, just text.

  • Om, this can't be for real can it?!
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  • imageemmienjuicy:
    Om, this can't be for real can it?!

    I know, I thought it was either MUD or just plain old S&M. But the ladies posted different blogs where apparently this is commonplace. One woman has her husband ground her, put her in time out, take away privileges, put hot sauce in her mouth and put her in the corner for cussing, and for the "worst" offenses, spankings and whippings. Apparently the "HOH', or head of household, has to administer these punishments to keep his wife in line, submissive, respectful, and obedient, the way God intended. It's effing unbelievable.

  • That is unbelievable.  Despite all the protestings those blogs had about it not being sexual, it clearly has strong sexual overtones.  I hope they don't teach their kids this is ok!

    Also, Jesus does not think it's ok to hurt anyone, especially the one you love!

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  • seriously?  this is just disgusting and basically domestic abuse.  that woman is completely brainwashed.  WTF!!!!!
  • That is seriously messed up. Indifferent
  • it was discussed all over this weekend:

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/41529334.aspx

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/41540221.aspx

    in my opinion... NSFW. but that's just content-based.

     

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  • I'm really sorry if this offends anyone here (don't think it does though), but I am really truly disturbed by this entire practice.  I read those sites and even found a website for "Christian Domestic Discipline" which just appalled me.  Why would any woman allow this to happen, and how can any man who lives his wife treat her this way?
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    I'm really sorry if this offends anyone here (don't think it does though), but I am really truly disturbed by this entire practice.  I read those sites and even found a website for "Christian Domestic Discipline" which just appalled me.  Why would any woman allow this to happen, and how can any man who lives his wife treat her this way?

    I can't imagine anyone being offended by your feelings. To me, this is just an S&M relationship, but since they're religious, to give in to this would be dirty and wrong, so they just come up with a convenient way to explain it under the cover of religion.

  • I would consider myself a follower of Christ, but I am almost wary to say even that since I would automatically be lumped with these "Christians."  I went to her "about me' section and agreed with "I'm a Christian.  I'm a wife.  I'm deeply loved by my husband and my God."  But this is crazy.  And not Biblical.  And perverse.  A daily maintenance whipping?  C'mon. 
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  • So when DH got home tonight, I asked him to come listen to something and that I wanted a candid reaction from him.  I read him one of the entries from that girl's blog expecting him to be as appalled as I was.  When I was finished I turned to him, and with a dead serious face he says

    "so?  Just how it should be."

     I was aghast and started to freak out at which point he cracked a smile and started laughing hysterically!  Gosh, man!  I nearly had a heart attack :) 

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    So when DH got home tonight, I asked him to come listen to something and that I wanted a candid reaction from him.  I read him one of the entries from that girl's blog expecting him to be as appalled as I was.  When I was finished I turned to him, and with a dead serious face he says

    "so?  Just how it should be."

     I was aghast and started to freak out at which point he cracked a smile and started laughing hysterically!  Gosh, man!  I nearly had a heart attack :) 

    we were doing that all night.

    Backtalk! Into the corner! smack!

    We were lol-ing but really.... yeah... they just aren't right. Confused

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  • I've never heard of this. I think its crazy. I can understand having your husband be the head of the household but these types of punishments are abuse.
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    imagejoelizabeth23:

    So when DH got home tonight, I asked him to come listen to something and that I wanted a candid reaction from him.  I read him one of the entries from that girl's blog expecting him to be as appalled as I was.  When I was finished I turned to him, and with a dead serious face he says

    "so?  Just how it should be."

     I was aghast and started to freak out at which point he cracked a smile and started laughing hysterically!  Gosh, man!  I nearly had a heart attack :) 

    we were doing that all night.

    Backtalk! Into the corner! smack!

    We were lol-ing but really.... yeah... they just aren't right. Confused

    LOL, we did this all night too. "You better do the dishes, or you're gonna get it!" haha.

    Although I did come across an even more disturbing blog. This woman's husband not only whips her, he forcibly sodomizes her as well when she gets really "out of control". The sick thing is that their kids know about it, and will leave them alone so Mom can get punished when she deserves it.

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    imageBAMFMrsB:
    imagejoelizabeth23:

    So when DH got home tonight, I asked him to come listen to something and that I wanted a candid reaction from him.  I read him one of the entries from that girl's blog expecting him to be as appalled as I was.  When I was finished I turned to him, and with a dead serious face he says

    "so?  Just how it should be."

     I was aghast and started to freak out at which point he cracked a smile and started laughing hysterically!  Gosh, man!  I nearly had a heart attack :) 

    we were doing that all night.

    Backtalk! Into the corner! smack!

    We were lol-ing but really.... yeah... they just aren't right. Confused

    LOL, we did this all night too. "You better do the dishes, or you're gonna get it!" haha.

    Although I did come across an even more disturbing blog. This woman's husband not only whips her, he forcibly sodomizes her as well when she gets really "out of control". The sick thing is that their kids know about it, and will leave them alone so Mom can get punished when she deserves it.

     

    i think i just vomited in my mouth a little bit.  sick sick sick

    I was having trouble focusing on my edits last night so DH was joking the he was going to ground me to the office and not let me out until I had my "assignment" done!  that didn't last two seconds! :)  Although, he did unplug our internet because I couldn't focus :) 

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