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I am now a lady of leisure

I got laid off yesterday.  Totally sucks, especially since no ones going to hire a woman that's 5 months pregnant.  So now I'm trying to look on the bright side, which today is that I can watch a Gilmore Girls marathon and work on my cross stitching project I have been putting off for 2 years. Any other recs for mindless activities to pursue with all this free time?
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"Once I got a bath bomb that, once exploded, filled the tub with confetti. Little sharp metallic pieces of confetti. The product description said nothing about confetti. Oh look, there's a tiny, sharp metallic blue star stabbing me in the labia. HOW RELAXING. " - NoisyPenguin

Re: I am now a lady of leisure

  • wow, that really sucks.
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  • Yeah, I tend to agree, specifically because it came down to me and another woman who has the IQ of a carrot and is completely useless.  The carrot's not going to need to take time off to have a kid so I'm pretty sure that was the deciding factor.  But I'm not bitter. 
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    "Once I got a bath bomb that, once exploded, filled the tub with confetti. Little sharp metallic pieces of confetti. The product description said nothing about confetti. Oh look, there's a tiny, sharp metallic blue star stabbing me in the labia. HOW RELAXING. " - NoisyPenguin
  • I'm sure that was a major factor in their decision.

    perhaps you could use this time to learn how to make jewelry, and fill the void that Christen left when she became employed.

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  • I have considered jewelry making, as well as blogging, selling all of my useless stuff on amazon/ebay and starting a cupcake truck. 
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    "Once I got a bath bomb that, once exploded, filled the tub with confetti. Little sharp metallic pieces of confetti. The product description said nothing about confetti. Oh look, there's a tiny, sharp metallic blue star stabbing me in the labia. HOW RELAXING. " - NoisyPenguin
  • I am so sorry.  I really am.  It sucks that they did that to you and have kept carrot girl.  Are you able to take action?
  • That stinks, Coley. Sorry to hear it. Cupcake truck sounds fantastic. Yum.

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  • I was hired for my current job when 5 months pregnant, it can happen!

    I think it's stupid short-sighted of an employer to let a pregnancy be a deciding factor.  Why yes, I did take off 2-3 of the first 6 months I was there, but 3 years later does that really matter?  How about 5 years from now?  

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  • I'm not sure, EAB but my H wants me to look into it.  I've been with the company for three years and had amazing performance reviews, etc.  There was only room for 2 of us and the one woman had been with the company for 15 years; the carrot started the same time I did and has less than stellar performance reviews and work ethic. 

     Wendy, I do plan on looking for work and hope to find something.  I've made some calls this morning as well as got in touch with other contacts I've made in my field, so we'll see how those pan out. 

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    "Once I got a bath bomb that, once exploded, filled the tub with confetti. Little sharp metallic pieces of confetti. The product description said nothing about confetti. Oh look, there's a tiny, sharp metallic blue star stabbing me in the labia. HOW RELAXING. " - NoisyPenguin
  • That bites, Coley.  I'm sorry you have to deal with that.  I vote for Cupcake Truck.  You can park it outside your old office, and refuse to sell cupcakes to carrot girl.  You get constant access to cupcakes AND a healthy (if not nutritious) outlet for your well-earned spite.  Win-win.
  • If you have more experience, better performance, etc etc. could you not take action against this as they obviously laid you off due to pregnancy?
  • I could take action, but I'm not sure how it would go since I work in the construction industry and work is really slow.  My layoff was due to "lack of sufficient work" for my position.  I'm trying to look into any legal options but I'm not sure if it would do any good.

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    "Once I got a bath bomb that, once exploded, filled the tub with confetti. Little sharp metallic pieces of confetti. The product description said nothing about confetti. Oh look, there's a tiny, sharp metallic blue star stabbing me in the labia. HOW RELAXING. " - NoisyPenguin
  • It sounds like a well-worded letter from an employment attorney would at least get you some severence, if not an actual reconsideration. Something similar happened to a friend of mine who was planning to take leave when his daughter was born. He didn't really want his job back after what they tried to do but he at least was able to get a severence package and is now eligible for unemployment (they initiall considered it a voluntary seperation). Of course, his wife is a lawyer and works with an employment attorney so they didn't have to pay for the consult. But the strongly-worded (yet very polite) letters really worked.
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    11/11/11 = 5 years. Woah!
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