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Unable to Orgasm...
I have been sexually active for 8 years...
6 partners over that time, some female, some male, and now I am with my fiance.
I think I have tried everything and I cannot have an orgasm. Whenever I get close I have a PANIC ATTACK. I have never had any trauma, I just cannot do it!
UGH, HELP!
Re: Unable to Orgasm...
Do you have panic attacks anytime besides durring sex?
If not, is it possible that what you are calling a panic attack could be the start of an orgasm? People have different sensations durring orgasms. Some people feel like they are going to pee on them selves. Other people say their bodies feel numb and tingley. Some people feel their heart start to race, their faces feel flushed and their BP goes up. The first time I had one, I thought I was having an asthma attack.
Either way, I think you should talk to your doctor about it.
Talking to your Dr may help b/c you might can pinpoint why you have these panic attacks during sex.
Maybe you have some type of anxiety about orgasming, or trust issues, or feeling vulnerable during sex or about orgasming?
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A couple things to think about. What kind of trust issues or weaknesses are you having? I am not a DR, but I would think it has something to do with trust or weakness, letting go and being afraid to show how turned on you are by what ever is happening . Is there something in the sex act that is making you uncomfortable? do you feel self concious ? do you feel pressure to orgasm? really think about these issues . Having an orgasm is wrapped up in all whatever thoughts / self esteem issues you have . You can go get professional help or you can just have a good think about why you are having this panic attacks.
Like the other girls said get a vibrator take you fiance or a fun girlfriend to a place like good vibrations ( a woman friendly sex shop ) and try it out . It can work wonders on you self confidence and finding out what turns you on. GL