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WOWWWW
A little background to this?for the past 6 months + pretty much ever since we got married and I started taking BCP my sex drive was very low. So the past few months my husband would come to me and try to turn me on and what not and I would always give some kind of excuse because I didn?t want to end up doing it and have to stop in the middle of it because it hurt or because I wasn?t feeling much. Moreover, I would feel pressured to at least try to do it more often for my husband?s sake because it really wasn?t his fault and I wanted to feel that closeness again but I just could not bring myself to do it. I honestly think it was a hormonal problem once I got off BC but then I think it was all mental and I?ve been struggling with that problem since.
Well last week my husband started his medical program, he is in the radiology dept. so he can?t carry his phone around, thus we don?t talk until I get home..So we?ve been missing each other a lot and I guess the fact that we don?t talk and see each other as much as before is actually helping us. Last night I got home and right away we started making out for a while and then next thing you know I?m on the kitchen countertop, with my skirt pulled up. Then we moved on to the couch and it lasted for a while. And unbelievable, a few hours later we went at it for round two.
I guess I just wanted to share this with you ladies, I thought I wouldn?t get my ?mojo? back, I really tried and I was always so ah not in the mood. So last night was amazing and I hope it will stay like this. One thing is for sure I am never taking BCP again..it started all this mess..
Re: WOWWWW
Woo! I like doin' it in the kitchen.
Sometimes a little bit of space works wonders! Glad you're back in the swing!
OP your pup is so adorable!!!
And congrats on getting your groove back
Seriously! i think that really pushed us in the right direction..
Same thing happened to me! BCP totally lowered my desire. I finally decided to get off of it because of that and then it was a mental thing!
That took me a little while to get over as well. Sometimes, I just forced myself to do it for my husband's sake but other times, I seriously wasn't in the mood. I felt us growing more and more distant sexually and I hated it.
Before I knew it though, I was back in the game. No more BCP for me!