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Would you call a friend out
When they were doing something ridiculous?
And I know I'm starting too many new threads tonight, but I'd like some input. I have a good friend that I've known forever. The kind of friend you could actually be completely honest with when you think they're being ridiculous.
This friend just got a job after being unemployed for over a year. He lived with his parents that whole time and racked up an insane amount of credit card debt (barely working at a horrible paying job, going out frequently, shopping, etc). Now he's got a job that I know can't pay all that much. He recently posted on FB about his new MacBook or whatever they call their laptops. I bit my tongue. NOW he's posting about whether he should get the Kindle or iPad. My head is going to explode. His entire paycheck has to be going to rent, insane student loans, and insane credit card debt. I have no doubt this too will go on his out of control credit cards.
Can I call him out? Can I?! I want to so bad. I am so disapproving of his spending habits. I've gently called him out in the past w/o drama. Would yo say something?
Re: Would you call a friend out
Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
omg, this sounds like my little sister snd her husband.
i want to call therm out so badly, but at the end of the day it is none of my business.
so i'm going with no. i wouldnt.
"As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse
Don't do it. Not your business.
I said something to a close friend about money and I really regret it. I wasn't even really calling him out either. I just told him not to get his hopes up about getting a really high paying job immediately in his field right now. And now he won't even talk to me about his new job. It's just not a good idea.
The nerve!
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He He. For some reason, Fallin just reminded me of Ramey.
He has talked to you about it before? And confessed his problems?
That definitely falls into the "you can talk to him" category for me.
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