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Analyze my dreams....
Ok, so I trust Adam 100% and know that he would NEVER do anything to hurt me, but I keep having these random dreams that he's cheating on me. They're horrible and I wake up crying and it's really screwing up my sleep patterns. I know that they say that dreams are what you're subconsciously thinking about, but I kinda think that's BS. I have no fear that Adam is going to cheat on me, so what the hell is going on?
Plus, the dreams are totally random and make no sense. Like the one last night, he was cheating on me with like three girls that he works with in an office (he doesn't work with girls and he hasn't been in an office except for mine in like 2 years). The way I found out about it in the dream was by looking at his iphone (which he doesn't have and wouldn't know how to use even if he HAD one since he's completely phone/computer dumb) and found a bunch of instant messages (which once again, he doesn't know how to do).
Am I the only one that has these types of dreams??? Maybe I'm just a freak.... I don't know, but they're really starting to irritate me.
Re: Analyze my dreams....
I have these same dreams too, then I wake him up and say do you have a mistress!
I don't have Dave-cheating-on-me dreams, but I did dream last night that I was out in this big field with lots of other people (think like a church picnic or something) and the sun was shining and there was a gorgeous blue sky. And everyone was grabbing the clouds out of the sky and "catching" the sunshine in them (the sunshine, not the sun itself) and reeling them in...so the clouds with the sunshine stuck in them looked like huge fried eggs. And then we were flying them like kites.
Decipher THAT one, b!tches.
HAHAHA I'm picturing this in my head and cracking up!
Last night I dreamed that HH had sold our house with all our new appliances (which I love!) and bought a house that he had never even looked at without telling me. When we get to our new house its extrememly old and falling in, its has no refrigerator, the stove is a piece of crap and I hated it. I woke up very upset lol.
Matt occasionally has dreams that I'm cheating on him. Once he dreamed that I looked right at him and then went over to some guy and started making out!
I think I had a dream that he was cheating on me once. It was a long time ago, and I wasn't worried that he was outright cheating, but I was uncomfortable with a friendship he had with a girl. I think the dream was somehow related to that.
Usually my dreams are about people I love dying. Fortunately, they do not seem to be prophetic! My other dreams can almost all be connected to stuff that I've been doing or hearing about recently.
This one I would say is because of the commitment you have made to him that he will be your one and only forever. Dreams a lot of time mean the opposite of what you think they mean. It could also mean you fear being neglected. It is your subconsious settling into married life and giving you crazy senarios of what could happen even though you know it won't. Hugs hang in there!!!
You dear lady,
When you dream of Kites n fluffy clouds n blue skys it actually means you are feeling grounded and fulfilled. You are feeling that you have an abundance of security and are just truly happy and satisfied.
I have dreams like that a few times a year. They usually come in a chunk, usually the first week of the semester when he starts classes. They tend to usually go away after a couple of weeks and come back the next semester.
He laughs at me because whenever I said I had a weird dream he asks what he did to me this time, since it is usually him breaking up with me.
I have found these happens when all of a sudden he starts spending a lot of time away from me (aka new semester of classes where I barely get to see him after spending weeks together.)
Pam are you going to be our dream interpreter?? That's awesome! I would love to know what some of my dreams mean.
You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step."
I have these dreams too!!! And i'm like omg am i a bad person that i'm dreaming this. In the dreams I always say I shouldn't be doing this I love Jay, LOL.