July 2010 Weddings
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So I have been stalling on writing my thank you cards. Looking over my list, I realized that we have a few guests that came to the wedding but did not give a card or gift. Do you still send a thank you card? If yes, then what should you say?
Thanks for your help!
Re: thank you card question
RIP Dr. Irving Fishman - 10/1/19-7/25/10 - thank you for holding on for me.
You made my wedding day complete.
Technically, you don't have to for the reasons Saisong mentioned.
We did though. We just said that we were thrilled they shared out day with us, babbled for a bit about something funny/entertaining/memorable we shared with them at the wedding, and thanked them again for coming.
Two Wonderful Years. 7.10.2010
My policy is: no gift, no thank-you.
Thank you notes are written to thank for gifts. Did you have to thank all your friends for just coming to your birthday party? Nope. That's what the favors are for. Why spend the time?
I was wondering the same thing! We had about 20% of guests not give gifts...mainly my cousins and such, but I can't imagine writing more thank yous! Still not sure what I'll do, but the ones who got gifts got thank yous immediately.
I hadn't considered writing to the others until I thought perhaps I should since they traveled and stayed in a hotel. Plus, one time I got a thank you for attending a wedding, thought it was weird they didn't thank me for the check, and then I looked in my suitcase and found the card. So, it worked for them as far as getting my gift! lol