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Sextember!

So I don't post here often, but I HAVE to share this challenge! Sextember was started by a church to help everyone in their congregation keep healthy marriages. I am not religious, however, our local radio station also throws this challenge out to listeners every September and my husband and I partake! All you have to do is try to have some form of sex every day with your partner. Actual sex, oral, phone sex, sexting whatever! It all counts. You can't have stack up though (meaning you can't have sex more than once a day and then take a "break" on another day). If you miss a day, keep going! See how long you can make it! I think if nothing else it's a fun excuse to be as crazy as you can for 30 days!
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Re: Sextember!

  • This gets posted from time to time.  It sounds like a good idea, but in the scheme of things I don't think I would want to feel obligated to have sex at any point.  That would completely take the fun out of it. 
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  • Yeah, I could see this being fun for about a week and then just becoming another chore.
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  • I love the Buzz too!!!!!

    We thought about applying to be one of the couples but we didnt submit the application in time.

    Its the 4th day of Sextember and our count is at 6. He was out of town one night so that threw things off a little bit.

    Good luck.

  • We tried the whole 'sex everyday for as many days as possible' before...ya, that lasted about a week. It seems like a fun idea at the outset, but if you're just not feeling it that day, it's like a chore. 

    Have fun with this though! 

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  • I think the point is to get couples who might not be having sex very often to get more into it to improve their marriage? it gets people to have sex even during times when it might feel like a "chore" because once you start you enjoy it and don't want to start? the best way to get in the mood is to just do it? and I think couples are closer and happier in the long run?. the point is that you're having sex more than just the ideal times? if not it wouldn't be a challenge
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