Thank you so much! I appreciate your words of advice.
I asked my husband today to back off the baby pressure and we still might TTC next month but I needed to feel like it was for the right reasons.
On a related note. Tonight we were babysitting our nephew who is 8 months tomorrow. DH loves to be super hands on with him but there are some things that I just generally do but today I thought he could try. So he fed him and that went alright. The biggest learning curve there was keeping everything neat and tidy. Then later in the evening I asked him to check the diaper to see if he was wet which turned into him decided he wanted to change his diaper. Our nephew is very busy. He flips and rolls and has recently started crawling. He was so excited to be naked and Steve just doesn't have the quick reflexes and he had said I couldn't butt in. Did I mention he was doing this on our white shag area rug. (on a change pad but that didn't last long). R was rolling and just enjoying life naked and every time DH would get him on his back and then try to put the diaper under he would flip over or somehow get away.
It was SO ridiculously funny. I wish I would have taped it for youtube. R was loving being naked on the shag and DH kept trying to flip him over. R was totally oblivious to how challenging he was being. I was howling on the couch, crying I was laughing so hard but not interfering as per request, He found it quite amusing too but DH was just so bewildered how to get him into this diaper. He tried with R seated on his lap and that just wasn't going to work. Finally he asked me to help and I pinned him (the baby of course) down and got it done in no time. At least there was no extra peeing and it was only a wet diaper.
Oh and we went to test drive a decent used vehicle that would cut our car payments in less than half. It's a small SUV and it would work really well for having a little one.
Anyways. That got really long but I wanted to share.
Re: F/U to post below
Thats awesome.